Doesn’t have to be thousands of dollars. Just a thing you spent money on that turned out to be a complete waste.

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    I bought like $20k of INTC when it was $19 and sold at $25

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    My “ex-wife”, I mean, I wasn’t even married. It was almost like if I could help someone else more, then it would all work out.

    Turns out no one cares about you, and the more you help others the less you have to help yourself.

    I was incredibly altruistic and I would burn to help someone lest I burn alone.

    The world don’t care. Get efficient and don’t rely on others.

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      I get where you’re coming from, and being hurt that way is completely valid.

      But, your statement assumes you are the only person on the planet like that. If you’re willing put someone else before you, unless you’re completely unique, there is absolutely people out there with those exact traits, who would do the exact same for you. Obviously that’s not an easy thing to find, and I understand your cynicism.

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      I was married, in my 40’s and listened to my now ex hubby #2 because his family had several. The payment was $600 a month… a second mortgage for a one week vacation? The timeshare, nor our marriage, lasted long after that.

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      Maybe I’m lucky, but I just stopped paying the maintenance fees. It never showed up on my credit, the phone calls stopped years ago, and all I get is the occasional scam offer in the mail to help me sell it.

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    Listened to the internet and held onto Gamestop for longer than I should have.

    I still did ok, but fuck I could have paid off my mortgage.

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      To be fair, they trading commission did some really shady and imo illegal shit to cut the legs out from under the squeeze.

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      Awe man. I managed to minimize my winnings. Sold a call. I figured cool get some action. Yes, that was a 400% profit but if I had taken the opposite (buy the call instead), it could own a new car. Anyway. I’m happy you paid off your mortgage.

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    I bought a laptop i don’t really like. Screen is too small to get real work done. I thought i was saving money with the smaller model

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      Too many people don’t factor in the cost of transportation, and it’s such a big one, especially now. In the midwest especially I know I did. I got a new job that was an hour away by car, which is about 40 miles including navigating from my city, the interstate, and the destination city. I knew my old car wouldn’t make it that much, so I bought a new car to help (and stupid younger me thought I looked cooler with it). At the time, gas was about $3/gallon and I got 30mpg highway, and I’ll round down to account for city mileage. So about 2.5 gallons of gas per work day, so $7.50 a day, or $150 a month. That’s $1,800 a year gone to gas alone.

      Then add in that new car payment ($500/month), and higher insurance (+250/month compared to previous insurance) and that’s $10.800 a year just to get to work, not counting anything else.

      Then I think that I took the job because I could get 20k more than my current job in the same city thinking “oh that’s so much more money”. Only looking back do I realize I immediately lost over half of that just to driving there, plus probably ~6,000 to taxes. So my “cool” new job in the other city netted me about $3,200 additional in my pocket per year, which is an additional $250 a month. Was it worth the additional stress of driving 2 hours every day, 40 hours a month (an additional work week every month) just for $250 a month? Probably not.

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        Yeah… Bought a luxury sport car years ago. Gas was $2.5-3 for premium, now it’s over $6! I spend almost $350/mo now for roughly my 1k miles a month.

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    formatted my drive 2010 thinking the bitcoin scam would not last so long.

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      I still have almost two coins in a corrupted wallet file I’ve never been able to fix from when I mined them on my crappy little laptop back then :-(

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    University

    I spent 50 grand and 4 years of my life to be told by prospective employers that I either lacked real world experience, or that I was overqualified. It took me another 3 years to find a job after university - one that doesn’t require training and is barely relevant to my field.

    I get to hang a pretty piece of paper up on my wall, I guess.

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      Yeah that’s rough. I can kind of say the same. The career I chose doesn’t require the degree I have. It absolutely helps but if I could go back, I would have just gotten licensed at 18 and started working in the trade. Degree is mechanical engineering, trade is operations side of stationary engineering.

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    Probably the time I used a cash machine in a weird place in my home town to draw out the maximum I could for Christmas spending and all I got from it was the receipt saying the money had gone from my account.

    The place was weird because, although it was in a very public square, it was kind of high off the ground, like it had been installed for people over 6ft tall. I am not that tall. The novelty appealed to me anyway. Mistake.

    I was so ashamed, I never reported it. I didn’t think I’d be believed.

    If you want actual things, I own a pre-smartphone electronic personal organiser that I used about five times and about a dozen calculators from when I got really into them for some reason. And at least one of those was “parts only” that I completely missed in the description.

    But if I could undo anything, I’d rather have that cash machine money back.

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    Got convinced by someone I very much trusted to join an MLM as a 19 or 20 year old. After my parents learned about it, they were able to talk some sense into me, and I realized I was part of a pyramid scheme. I got out and basically broke even, which was honestly the best possible outcome of that whole scenario. It unfortunately degraded my relationship with the person who convinced me to join, and I never really could fully trust them after that.