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  • I disagree with the other commenter. Your male friend is irrelevant, it comes down to trust, does your boyfriend trust you. I don’t like the opinion of the commenter of “Just dump him”, that’s a very throwaway concept. (Something isn’t perfect? Throw it out of your life. I don’t like that line of thinking)

    I think you should communicate with your boyfriend, ask him why he feels that way, and ask why he feels like he can’t trust you. It’s a dialogue you two need to have. It won’t be a fun one, but if you both want the relationship to work you’ll come out stronger. (If he tries to say things like “He’s waiting for his turn”, turn it around, make it about you and him. “But do you trust me”?) You then give him time to learn and adjust to it. Of course if he refused to learn or adjust, and it doesn’t work, then it becomes a more serious decision.

    My anecdote, I was your boyfriend for a long time. My SO, now spouse, was hanging out with someone who was clearly interested. To make it worse, I had been cheated on before so it was a massive trigger for me, and I was immediately paranoid (cheating really fucks with your trust). I grew jealous and it became very unhealthy. If my SO took the other commenter’s advice, we wouldn’t have the life we have now. Thank god they didn’t, and instead talked to me, and gave me the ability to learn and grow. I learned to trust her, and worked on myself, and now 15 years later we’re both very happy and have built a life together.







  • I have many of the same issues, and was able to work through it. Their /e/OS comes bundled with microG, and Google Services replacement. Because of this, I was able to install:

    Google Calendar Gmail Google Maps Google Fi (Fi is my carrier, but I’m looking for a new one)

    Installing apps was as simple as downloading the relevant Google app from the “App Lounge”, which is a Play Store equivalent. The only Google thing I couldn’t do was enable my Google Calendar for my work account, because they require a YubiKey, and there’s something there blocking it, but they claim to be working on it for the next major release of microG.

    There was a bit of fear when I set it up that I wouldn’t be able to set up Fi, the first login attempt to my google account failed, but the second one passed perfectly fine.


  • Good and bad, but mostly good. It’s a solid phone, it does pretty much everything I could ask for. I was really nervous when I tried to activate it (I’m still on Google Fi, for now until I decide on a good carrier), and it activated without a hitch. The /e/OS App Lounge has pretty much every app, at least there aren’t any I haven’t found.

    Setup was like setting up a phone back in the gingerbread days. Completely green field, figuring out what apps I liked and what I didn’t, there was definitely no guided “this is your phone”, more of a “Okay here you are, go make it your own now” vibe, like original Android.

    No wallet, and I haven’t been able to get my Samsung watch to work with it, but there’s hope on the horizon there. For me, these are worth it to leave Google behind.

    It doesn’t have every bell and whistle, I’d say it’s nothing fancy. It’s a solid phone. It has a good camera, battery, screen, but nothing amazing. I’d say it’s very… fair.