• tocopherol@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    23 hours ago

    I’m gonna start bringing a portable clothes iron around to get out the creases from activist flags, it’s not a huge deal but it just always irks me a little. Their image would be even more impressive with a nice creaseless flag.

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      The cheap, thin nylon is incredibly easy to melt. I buy a new, thick Pride flag every June for my house as the old one is tattered and faded by then. Usually run it through the steam dryer 2-3 times and then hang it out on a nice hot day, and the wrinkles relax. An iron is easy to overdo it with as I learned with a cheap Trans Pride flag one year.

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      I mean, elmo is technically (South) African American and white as snow

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        “African American” is such a weird subset of people. Like, aren’t all humans from Africa? Then why is this term used only for black people?

        Or do they mean to specify the African diaspora caused by the slave trade? But then aren’t we wrongfully including people who moved freely on their own to the US, and those that may even come from other regions?

        I get that the word is basically a synonym for black people but with less attached prejudice. I’m just sad that we live in a world where that prejudice still exists.

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          The term and all the other -american prefixes has always weirded me out. It feels othering with a veil of progressiveness. I often find US progressives almost loop back around to enacting segregation again

          • Tbf, just using the term “American” can sometimes leave out important context. Cuz of white defaultism.

            In certain places in the world, the term “American” usually gets the image of a white person in their mind, sometimes black people, but an Asian person is never in their mind. So like, if you are like on the internet, and you don’t say “Asian American”, people usually just assume you look like some white hillbilly in the US south.

            If I’m running for office or at a polling place or if, god forbid, ICE shows up, I’m just “American”, but if racial conflict is involved like if Covid and Anti-Asian hate crimes is the topic, then leaving the “Asian” part out of “Asian Americans like me are being targeted in a wave of hate crimes” would result in a meaningless sentence.

            It all depends on context.

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          17 hours ago

          The left broadly still tip-toes so gingerly around any group or ethnicity that they trip all over each other to make sure nobody feels excluded, and ends up making an environment that feels so much like walking on eggshells that nobody wants anything to do with it other than kids who want to earn performative inclusivity badges.

          I got very burned out when I was more active in a few groups and half of every meeting was just qualifiers and disclaimers instead of organized action. And in the intervening years it’s gotten worse as we’ve lost more ground.

          I get we need to have solidarity for people who don’t have a voice, but I’m not sure our species broadly knows how to turn that into an actionable strategy that doesn’t push away the very people we need on board, the tuned-out, short-attention-span masses who still equate leftist activism with some south park stereotype.

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        I saw a flag seller in 2020 with a pole flying Trump, Biden, Jolly Roger, USSR, Bass Pro Shop, Weimar Germany, My Little Pony, ACAB, they are the true centrists of our time.

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          17 hours ago

          Can’t really blame the guy. Being a flag seller was his lifelong dream and nobody buys flags like ideologies.

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    22 hours ago

    lemmy when someone makes a performative display of resistance online: 😄😁👍

    lemmy when someone makes a display of resistance IRL (the person is Black): 😡😒👎🏻

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        21 hours ago

        look at the comments under this post, they’re full of animosity and snark towards that person

        compare them to any post negative of ICE on this platform and you won’t see that same energy

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          I see only one directed towards that person, sort of, and it’s heavily downvoted.

          70% are complaining about the title.

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    African American? Did they or their parents recently immigrate from Africa? Are they invested in African politics? Do they at least adopt some form of African cultural identity? Otherwise, they are just Americans.

    Elon Musk is more of an African American than people judged by the color of their skin given how much he has tried to push his own agendas regarding South Africa onto this administration.

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        We all know what people mean by it; they mean “black” but are scared to say it for whatever reason.

        I think criticism of the term “African-American” is valid. Most black people in America today have never been to Africa.

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          oh absolutely, i’ve seen enough criticism of that term from Black people (americans or not) to know not to use it.

          still, pretending to not know what it means just to push a half-baked message about racial colorblindness is… why. why would you do this. the elon musk shit on top of it, why

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      22 hours ago

      Elon Musk is more of an African American than people judged by the color of their skin

      If Musk was truly a first generation African American, he’d have been deported already.

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      Does your comment

      A) add to the helplessness people are already feeling?

      B) encourage defeatism in a time of rising authoritarianism?

      C) reveal you’re somewhere safe in White Australia and have no idea how things are on the ground for average Americans?

      D) all of the above.

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        What do you honestly think this is doing to “resist”?

        Is it raising awareness for the thing we all know sucks and know sucks because we’ve seen their actions not a flag?

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          You’re getting downvoted by clowns who think good intentions matter- these are the people keeping the US where it is right now.

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          What is this “we all” and “we’ve” shit? Your tapeworms have become sentient.

          In the meantime, ICE is insecurity and frailty wreathed in weapons. They need to know just how very fucking much we hate them, not just corporately but individually. Each one of them.

          Our guy here (“our” being American, as opposed to the “we” of you + your tapeworms) is doing his share. He saw something he could do, and he’s doing it. He’s showing up.

          By way of contrast, you’re just mocking his effort because that’s all you have, and you have made it clear in other posts as well as your instance you’re not even doing it from the same hemisphere.

          That, and our guy with the flag isn’t wrong. Inequality is exactly where all this began.

          But back to you, your own favorite subject. You have such a problem with this one person doing his part that you actually have to mock it twice, but as far as I can see he’s doing far more for the common good than you.

          Turns out that a lot of little efforts are adding up to great things, like getting the National guard kicked out of LA and Chicago and Portland, but you’re not interested in that.

          Going by your other posts you just want to see other people fight, like all the Trump voters I know. They love that shit. I’m certain they’d love that for you too if they only knew.

          So off to some other safe space with you, like Truth Social, lest another guy showing up for his community and country in his own individual way offend your politically delicate tapeworms to the point of mockery again.

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            Okay centrist, go vote them out the mid terms like that’ll fucking do anything. How many lives are lost while you wave a flag instead of resisting? Maybe if you get enough upvotes and prayers you’ll defeat ICE.

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      Right? Who cares about flags?

      I heard Francis Scott Key had a missing last verse that said, “Lol. JK. Flags are for losers.”