lolthe Ass
nice
“My [wife/husband/wife’s boyfriend/husband’s girlfriend/husband’s boyfriend/mother/father/brother/sister] did [obviously wrong thing], but one of my friends confronted me, and said I was in the wrong, the group is split, half sided with my [■■■■■], which the other sided with me. Dear Lemmings, AITAH?”
Basically sums up these communities.
Thank you
sure it’s not
Well my link works and yours doesn’t so I’m pretty sure. If this was supposed to be a joke, I’m not sure what the punchline is.

And for me, neither links work, so I’ll just say that both sides are assholes.
Your home instance, fedia.io, may not know about [email protected] yet.
You need to trigger a community search for the string “[email protected]” on your home instance, which is what makes it “discover” the community.
Fedia.io runs Mbin.
On Lemmy and Piefed, clicking on a link to a community that your home instance doesn’t know about will provide an option to do such a search. I don’t know if Mbin does that. If not, I’d manually do it.
If that doesn’t work, maybe there’s some sort of compatibility problem between current Mbin and current Lemmy.
EDIT: Or could be the client, since you say that you’re using Interstellar.
Does it not actually work or does it just show the community with no posts? The latter is a federation issue.
There is another way to link communities with the Lemmy markup code that generally works more often across different instances, but I forgot what it was. I mean, other than a normal URL anyway.
https://lemmy.world/c/AmITheAsshole
I’m never quite sure what works universally and what works solely because of the app I use. 😅
It’s literally unclickable in Interstellar - the link is gray and cannot be tapped.
Probably the best traction you’re going to get is in [email protected]. There exist more specific communities as listed in the other comments, but they tend to be much smaller, or defunct.
Nice cropping.
You can try looking?
“Looking” on Lemmy can be luck based.
My vague understanding is that communities can exist for a long time and not make it into an individual user’s search results or “all” feed, because no one else on their home server has participated in that server yet.
It’s a design that scales fantastically, but does make asking much more reliable than searching.
Edit: Copying from discussion n for visibility:
You can search all communities with https://lemmyverse.net/communities
I will keep this in mind
You can search all communities with https://lemmyverse.net/communities
Im really new to here and did try looking but couldn’t find anything





