Edit to add my opinion so I’m not just replying “I agree” to 90% of comments. I think it should be legal, properly regulated, taxed and viewed as a profession. I haven’t personally engaged in it but I have no moral objection to it. I do hate the common sentiment that it was the individual’s “only option” though.

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    Im old school and think humans should not legally be able to do this. But since they will do it anyway, without legal support, the issue is more complicated.

    I guess its better if they have legal support if they are going to do it anyway.

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    How about legalize it, but register it, don’t tax it!?

    …at least for a while, until registration becomes the norm. Otherwise there’s going to be a lot of cash in hand still

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    Absolutely should be legal and taxed, with rules and regulations in place to protect clients and workers.

    I pretty much do have moral objections to it, its fundamentally gross to me, but its not going to stop and id rather these prostitutes work in a safe place and pay their taxes like the rest of us than get their passports taken by a guy named The Scorpion with a spider Web tattooed on his neck.

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    Its an acutely exploitative labor relation that should be heavily regulated within a capitalist system in order to reduce the amount of abuse the people engaging in it experience. Ideally I want a system where no one feels a need to sell their body for a living. No one should be coerced into sexual relations.

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    If the individual selling their services is doing so freely and isn’t being exploited in any sort of way then I don’t have a problem with it.

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      We never used it but I did look into it when we lived in Nevada for a friend who had been celibate for over a decade at that point. Nice dude, but extremely quiet and just has zero confidence/game.

      I loved that the ladies were independent contractors who set their OWN rates, and they advertised what THEY were comfortable doing/ their explicit “no-go” list. There was also a strict consent banner on the site I used that said any of the ladies could kick anyone out at any time and there were panic buttons in the rooms.

      Never actually did end up contacting them because we ended up being too poor at the time. Wasn’t mad though, those ladies were setting prices that they deemed fair for their bodies and I have mad respect for that. Whether people agree with prostitution as a concept or not, its not going away and its referred to as the “world’s oldest occupation” for a reason. The best thing to do is protect the people who are choosing to engage in it/ensure they’re getting paid extremely well for their time.

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    Kind of conflicted?

    I’m fine with the idea of exchange of money for sexual services. I don’t have any moral qualms with that practice.

    My concern is that, even in some legal structures, it tends to encourage the preditation of some sex workers for the benefits of others exploiting people’s sexual labor.

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    I think its quite necessary profession and also extremely compassionate one. Those doing it should be protected and appreciated better.

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    Never had anything to do with it personally, but just like with drugs it should be legal and regulated because it’s impossible to prohibit it.

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      Hard agree.

      Regulate it, tax it, protect the workers and users. Prevent the spread of diseases and use the money to ensure their futures.

      Minimize harm, maximize happiness.

      Failure to do so is a failure of society.

      After all, we already have so many people making money on onlyfans and through doing pornography, which is legalized prostitution anyway, so the people that do that in a non-video scenario should have at least the same protections.

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    I am for the civilized approach of the Nordic Model.

    What is the Nordic Model?

    The Nordic Model (sometimes known as the Sex Buyer Law, and the Swedish, Abolitionist, Survivor or Equality Model) is an approach to prostitution that has been adopted in Sweden, Norway, Iceland, Northern Ireland, Canada, France, Ireland and Israel. It has several elements:

    1. Decriminalisation of selling sex acts

    Prostitution is inherently violent. Women should not be criminalised for the exploitation and abuse they endure.

    2. Buying sex acts becomes a criminal offence

    Buying human beings for sex is harmful, exploitative and can never be safe. We need to reduce the demand that drives sex trafficking.

    3. Support and exit services

    High quality, non-judgemental services to support those in prostitution and help them build a new life outside it, including: access to safe affordable housing; training and further education; child care; legal, debt and benefit advice; emotional and psychological support.

    A holistic approach

    A public information campaign; training for police and CPS; tackling the inequality and poverty that drive people into prostitution; effective laws against pimping and sex trafficking, with penalties that reflect the enormous damage they cause. Read more >>

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    I’m fine with either, i understand why some countries ban it and why some don’t. However if legalised, it absolutely has to be regulated very seriously. People working on that field need to be protected against abusive workplace conditions that can occur. If the govt cannot provide that protection, it’s better to outright ban it.

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    I don’t have a problem with prostitution, I have a problem when socioeconomic conditions lead people to feeling like they have to sell their bodies to survive. If prostitution is completely voluntary, then it’s fine.

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    Looking at the pros and the cons, it must be the opposite of CONstitution.

    …I’ll see myself out.