I know someone who received a phone call in the morning to ask if they were actually cool with their husband taking a trip across the country with him. Ruined her whole day. Couldnt go to work because she didnt want to cry in the office. She knew about the vacation and was fine with it. Still not entirely sure how that ruined her day, but it did.
Yes, there are people that can’t do that.
I know someone who received a phone call in the morning to ask if they were actually cool with their husband taking a trip across the country with him. Ruined her whole day. Couldnt go to work because she didnt want to cry in the office. She knew about the vacation and was fine with it. Still not entirely sure how that ruined her day, but it did.
I’m not sure I’m following the source of her negative feelings
some people want absolute control over their partner/loved ones. and can’t accept anything less.
Sounds like maybe she isn’t either.
The only way I could see it making sense is if the husband was going on a trip with another woman, or he has a history of cheating on her with men.