I’m trying to plan my life, but I feel like I’m putting together a thousand-piece puzzle with no picture on the box

  • Flauschige_Lemmata@lemmy.world
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    3 hours ago

    If you wait too long, it might become biologically impossible. Biologically, the best age for kids is between 20 and 35. After that, there is a sharp decline.

    And there is never 100% readiness, nor 100% certainty that you want it. Especially not while you are that young.

    A sad number of folks I know are in their 40s, and struggling to convince. They wanted to be 100% ready, then build a large family. And now it’s too late.

    So if you are in a position where you can have kids, and think you want kids, you should probably go for it. Even if you aren’t 100% ready yet.