• Echo Dot@feddit.uk
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    13 hours ago

    So if a person struggles with confidence your solution is for them to stand up on stage? There seems to be an important first step that seems to have been skipped.

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      9 hours ago

      You’ve gotta take the first step yourself, no one can do that for you.

      Or don’t. Be a shutin. Fear the mailman. Die a virgin. I’m not your boss.

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        7 hours ago

        The first steps are the part they have difficulty with.

        It is like asking help with addition and subtraction, and giving info on how to do matrices and arithmetic.

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      Improv doesn’t have to be on a stage.

      To practice improv is just to practice social skills. And, I don’t know how else to say this, a lack of social skill is the fundamental root problem here. Anyone who lacks confidence in this way is going to have to learn them one way or another.

      A real first step might be learning to be brave and charging through one’s anxiety to get to the improv center, but they have to go. Whether it’s improv or something else, they have to go.