I think I know what you’re saying.

“Don’t waste time with shitty people, don’t become a shitty person.”

But the reasons go over my head. “Because nobody is owed anything for existing” and “Because it’s not okay to be shitty when people do good to you” sound disconnected.

But that’s okay. If you want to elaborate further, I’ll be happy to continue reading. I won’t blame you if you don’t.

Thank you for expanding further.