I’ll go first. My ex cheated on me with a dude, (I’m les, she’s bi,) brought home chlamydia and bed bugs, then after 13 years of no contact, texts me randomly to try and pull me into an MLM pyramid scheme.

    • krooklochurm@lemmy.ca
      13·
      2 days ago

      I thought this was funny.

      You don’t deserve the downvotes.

      Also I’m REALLY failing to understand how someone could not understand that this was a joke. For the love of god.

      • dkppunk@piefed.socialEnglish
        5·
        2 days ago

        I didn’t catch that it was a joke, I thought it was a misunderstanding or person legit thought it was a typo, but I also don’t think it deserved downvotes.

    • dkppunk@lemmy.world
      111·
      2 days ago

      Sorry, no, that’s not what it means. It’s a word that refers to someone who mooches off of their partner because they don’t want to work. That guy was just an ass.

      • Apytele@sh.itjust.works
        4·
        2 days ago

        Yeah but I always thought the hobosexual was the sucker. Like I’m a hobosexual because I prefer a domestic house husband but it’s difficult to find a man who isn’t just saying he’s one as a ruse for wanting to do 0 work, domestic or otherwise.

        • dkppunk@lemmy.world
          3·
          2 days ago

          I’ve always heard it used to describe the lazy person, but I guess there are multiple definitions. I used it referring to this definition: A hobosexual is someone who dates for housing, not love

          I think people having a discussion and agreeing that one person stays home while the other works is completely fine. That’s not what my situation was, he worked, then he didn’t, then he refused to.

          • Apytele@sh.itjust.works
            2·
            2 days ago

            that’s been my position several times as well unfortunately. like I said, lots of men say that’s what they’re gonna do, then they actually get there and realize domesticity is actually a legit job and they don’t really wanna do that either.