Hey friend, I know this doesn’t exactly help, but it will get better eventually. I lost my void of 19 years a few of years ago, and that was harder than losing blood family.
If you can stomach it, (and if not, wait for the initial hurt to pass then) try to have pictures of your girl or stuff you associate with her around you. It took me close to two years to come to terms with losing my old girl, but I can finally do this without immediately bursting into tears, and I’m so much happier now that I can. It’s only the paw imprint, but it means a lot more to me.
Hey friend, I know this doesn’t exactly help, but it will get better eventually. I lost my void of 19 years a few of years ago, and that was harder than losing blood family.
If you can stomach it, (and if not, wait for the initial hurt to pass then) try to have pictures of your girl or stuff you associate with her around you. It took me close to two years to come to terms with losing my old girl, but I can finally do this without immediately bursting into tears, and I’m so much happier now that I can. It’s only the paw imprint, but it means a lot more to me.
Take care, and I hope you’re doing well