Ok, please do indulge me on this one, because this whole subject is an enigma to me and has been mentally eating at me over the years.

How do men and women meet in a nightclub and then end up having a one-night stand?

Part of the reason I don’t like clubbing is that it triggers feelings of jealousy within me.

I have a friend, let’s just call him Matt. Whenever I’ve been out with Matt, women have always thrown themselves at him whereas my experiences by comparison have led to nothing but rejection.

There is nothing particularly special about Matt. He’s a year younger than me, looks about average for someone in their early thirties, yet has infinitely more rizz. I can’t put my finger on it.