I’m a healthy outdoorsy athletic woman, never touched drugs or alcohol or junk food, a lifestyle which is intentional & ESSENTIAL criteria I work hard for.
So WHY the only men who approach me with amorous intentions are unhealthy, cigarette, alcohol, junk food men??
Update: Thank you for your thoughtful responses & the humorous ones too. I upvoted my favorites & laughed at the funnies and you’ve given me plenty to think about & work on.


That’s not really the problem. It’s more so that I feel like a burden. I don’t feel I have much to offer her. I’m loyal and loving but I feel like that’s not enough.
Treat yourself with the same consideration you would give someone else. You are a person too. Would you tell your loyal and loving friend they were inadequate?
Be nice to yourself.
Ok, and if the tables were turned woild you not be interested in someone because they had your traits?
Fair point. I have pretty major issues with self-esteem and it’s something I need to work on. Thanks!
I sincerely wish you the best o7
Thank you! You as well.