I called it quits with my boyfriend today on a video call. It had been brewing for a while, and the breakup was very amicable. Instead of feeling angry or sad, I actually feel fresh and excited. I think it’s because we got into the relationship very quickly, and I never really got the chance to explore or “play the field.”
Mine happened over the phone back in 2012. One of the best decisions I’ve made was to break up with her. We were arguing about something (no idea about what, anymore) and I angrily shouted (in ptbr) “You don’t need to call me anymore, ever again, it’s over for us! Good bye!” - She was very angry at me and tried to call me back several times, I turned off my cell phone and disconnected the cord of the home phone. Since those weren’t working, she called my mom, to which I replied “Whatever you have to say, I don’t want to hear.”, finishing the call without letting her speak.
The relief I felt then was HUGE.