I’ve been with my boyfriend since 2024. Our relationship has to be on the down low / an open secret because dating isn’t permissible among his people. His family says they really like me, but they’d never accept me as his wife since I’m not Arab, maybe as a second wife, but the first wife has to be someone they approve of. I don’t want to be a second wife. I’m with him despite all of this because he treats me great, fucks me good, and gets me (he’s very open-minded and chill, and I feel fully comfortable with him). But I know he won’t go against his family for me because of $$$.
I know that I won’t be helpful, but you have a good enough reason to leave while also good enough reasons to stay for a while.
You have two things to consider
you’ll need to find someone who you see future with. Staying here leaves you with lesser time
longer you are together, the more painful will be the break up