People in Beehaw are nice (thank you all for that), but I am put off of the idea of reddit-like sites because of how toxic Reddit became (and also because of it lumping all USians as you-know-what), and when I select “All” for all lemmy instances in post view, it brings back bad memories of reddit.
I am very sorry if i anger anybody in Beehaw. this is also the reason why I am not active in beehaw.
I’m not much on Lemmy myself, and I got similar flashbacks when hitting the “All” button. So I tweaked the communities I follow and tend to stick with Beehaw.
I still don’t post much. I’m prone to a quip here or there, or even a terse comment. But I lurk mostly, more mindful of not adding toxicity.