• sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    4 days ago

    I mean, I would consider going to (or organizing) a planned sex party or something like that, but the problem for me here is mostly that it’s just bukkake.

    If the uh, the set of activities were a bit more diverse, or interesting, maybe me sitting around and not doing any work, like a lipstick party… or any number of things that actually require, or are considerably more enjoyable with another person or multiple people…

    That’d be more appealing.

    That, and, frankly, I kind of just find the idea of a bukkake scene inherently demeaning to women… or I gueas just any uh, subject, regardless of sex/gender.

    Sure, probably some ladies are into that, some guys are into that, etc.

    Just gives me bad vibes, don’t like the idea of treating someone’s face as a collective group cum dumpster, even if its consensual, just feels gross to me.

    Further, you’d need to vet the participants, screen/background check them generally, also screen for STIs/STDs, etc.