• potatoguy@lemmy.eco.br
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    4 days ago

    My mother would do this when I was a teenager, pissed me off and made me a paranoid. It’s not normal and now I live 1500 km away from my parents, visiting them one time every 2 years just for the family obligation and saving face.

    99% of the problems I’m trying to solve in therapy comes from my upbringing.

    So yeah, not optimal situation, try to grow from this, learn to grow out of this situation.