My mother would do this when I was a teenager, pissed me off and made me a paranoid. It’s not normal and now I live 1500 km away from my parents, visiting them one time every 2 years just for the family obligation and saving face.
99% of the problems I’m trying to solve in therapy comes from my upbringing.
So yeah, not optimal situation, try to grow from this, learn to grow out of this situation.
My mother would do this when I was a teenager, pissed me off and made me a paranoid. It’s not normal and now I live 1500 km away from my parents, visiting them one time every 2 years just for the family obligation and saving face.
99% of the problems I’m trying to solve in therapy comes from my upbringing.
So yeah, not optimal situation, try to grow from this, learn to grow out of this situation.