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    20 hours ago

    Abusive relationships and mentally ill women are more common than society allows people to admit.

    No matter how good the benefits are, people in an abusive relationship can’t truly access them.

    You talking to people who have encountered that. It’s truly incomprehensible to people who haven’t experienced it. Hence the wide uncross-able gulf between the two sides.

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      16 hours ago

      Just read the comments further down the chain about how people talk about men that express negative views of their wives.

      If you don’t want to read the summary is :Those men are lazy alpha male trad trash with issues.

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          16 hours ago

          Have you ever complained about work? Why haven’t you quit on the spot? Some people live by this and most don’t.

          There is usually much more to people stories than face value. That makes leaving bad situations harder than it seems on the outside.