• minorkeys@lemmy.world
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    4 hours ago

    They absolutely do not, unless you start playing with what, ‘consensual’ means. They may feel more shame than those men do, but the kinds of people who grape others generally don’t feel shame, in general, so even that comparison is poor. Additionally, shaming isn’t the primary tool society uses to respond to grape, assault, prison, ostracizing or murder is, so like, so what is there less shame? Shame is what gets used when physical force isn’t acceptable.

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      but the kinds of people who grape others generally don’t feel shame

      I think this is probably not true.

      the primary tool society uses to respond to grape, assault, prison, ostracizing or murder is, so like, so what is there less shame?

      Those tools aren’t equally available to everyone, they are expressions of power, which some people have access to more than others.

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        Christ, I wish people would learn to use proper punctuation. I had to read that run-on garbage like three times before I figured out what OP was trying to express (that is not how commas work). I’m still not entirely sure what is meant from the “so what” part on.

    • xia@lemmy.sdf.org
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      I don’t think it would be that far of a stretch to have “consensual sex” include prostitution.