I’m 31, my husband is 51, and lately I’ve been feeling some baby fever. For the record, kids aren’t a must for me, I’m genuinely happy with or without them, but I think it would be nice to experience that journey. My husband is hesitant, though. Even though he’s very healthy, active, and energetic, he feels like having a child in his 50s might be too late. He also already has a 27-year-old son, and he worries that the big age gap between siblings would feel strange.
I guess I’m just looking to hear what others think about this situation.
Forget ‘if you’re this old your kid is this old’. Older men produce subpar sperm that can cause birth defects, pre-eclampsia and premature birth. It’s not just dangerous for the child but for the mother too.
How is no one else bringing this up?