32m here and ive been on dating apps for over 10 years and think they’ve gotten worse since the whole swiping algorithm. I always do max swipes daily on fb dating, tinder, and bumble with minimum to no success. Tinder being the worst of the three. Ik irl is better, I just am not good at it with social anxiety and overthinking. Anybody find what works on these apps if you’re an average looking man?

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      Remember when conservatives used to say it was a choice? If it was a choice, I would have lost my virginity a lot sooner.

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        Same here. I’m like a classic bear IRL and I’ve gotten attention. My luck with women is nowhere close.