32m here and ive been on dating apps for over 10 years and think they’ve gotten worse since the whole swiping algorithm. I always do max swipes daily on fb dating, tinder, and bumble with minimum to no success. Tinder being the worst of the three. Ik irl is better, I just am not good at it with social anxiety and overthinking. Anybody find what works on these apps if you’re an average looking man?

    • Sonor@lemmy.world
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      4 days ago

      While that is true, i think it also nicely points out that dating apps are actually not a great way to find a partner anymore

      • blarghly@lemmy.worldEnglish
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        4 days ago

        I mean, they were never, like, a fun way to meet a partner. But they certainly are a way.

        • Sonor@lemmy.world
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          4 days ago

          i can see that, certainly. and there are cases where they are unavoidable. But still (and i show my age here) I’d still rather avoid them if at all possible

          • blarghly@lemmy.worldEnglish
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            4 days ago

            A totally understandable take. On the other hand, I personally find them quite useful, and don’t think they should be dismissed out of hand. And I think that if someone wants advice on using them effectively (going back to my original post in this thread), that they should be given advice on using them effectively - not platitudes.