• TheDoozer@lemmy.world
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    there is no such thing as a good landlord.

    Okay, I’ll bite. I just bought a 4-bed/3-bath (actually 4 bathrooms, but bathroom math made it “3-bath”) because we are a family of four in an expensive tourist spot and wanted a guest bedroom for family and visitors. It just so happened one bed and a 3/4 bathroom is in an attached 1-bedroom apartment with its own kitchen and living room.

    So when I retire, and my oldest is out of the house to college, we are thinking we could rent that particular part (at a very reasonable rate to people we know). It is part of the house, so I can’t sell it separately. So the choice is be a landlord, or don’t offer housing (I suppose I could make it an AirBnB and make even more money, but this area is already fucked for housing for that reason).

    So if there is no such thing as a good landlord, what would you recommend in a situation like this? Let someone live there for free? Then they’d be costing me money. Don’t rent it out? AirBnB?

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        My in-laws have a house with one of the bedrooms with it’s own bath and it’s own external entrance, you have to walk outside to get to that bedroom.

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          Yeah I mean, I could understand it being actually just three bathrooms, two for the main three bedrooms and one for the seperate unit. It’s not a self-contained unit without it. But if there are four toilets in that house that is massively overkill.

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      So when I retire, and my oldest is out of the house to college, we are thinking we could rent that particular part (at a very reasonable rate to people we know). It is part of the house, so I can’t sell it separately.

      If you don’t need that space, then you might as well sell it and let another family make use of it instead.

      Yours is not a unique situation; a lot of older people downsize when their kids move out, and they have a lot of extra rooms and space they no longer need. Its the right decision anyway, as you’re now free to be more mobile, and get rid of all the years of accumulated junk.

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        So you’re saying that person should sell their house because one of the rooms is unoccupied? What if their oldest loses their job and can’t find a new one, but has to move back, and then can’t because they downsized to a smaller house?

        I’m not so sure that is a great solution.

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          So you’re saying that person should sell their house because one of the rooms is unoccupied?

          If they can’t afford it, yes? That’s what the rest of us do. We make do with what we have and budget accordingly. If something is too expensive, well tough. The problem is that a lot of people are facing problems like housing, food, and healthcare being too expensive, and all three of those things are required to live. At some point budgeting won’t save you.

          I have no sympathy for people whose biggest problem is “I can’t afford this extra room in the house we own.”

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            But what if they can afford it, but just don’t like seeing reasonable housing go to waste? Not enough to try to exactly right-size their housing and move everything they own, but enough to offer it up for rent.

            It’s certainly a niche that isn’t the typical story, but renting out portions of your house is a scenario that could make sense.

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          What if their oldest loses their job and can’t find a new one, but has to move back, and then can’t because they downsized to a smaller house?

          What if their oldest loses their job and now for no fault of their own the renter is suddenly forced to find a new place to live to accommodate the landlords son? But they’ve been spending their money on rent so they don’t have enough savings to find a decent place?

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        Sure you can argue they dont need that space, but a lot of kids return after college. If I had kids I’d only downsize once they are well established. It’s about ensuring the security of your family and ensuring they have a place to come back to.

        Is it better to let that sit space vacant for 4+ years though?

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            Is there a third option? It’s an unused room in a house that’s being used.

            They can rent it out, leave it out, or sell their house and downsize but then what if their oldest is out of work and can’t find a new job and has to come home, but now because they downsized there’s no room for them. How does that help? It seems like there are only two valid options unless I’m missing something.

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            In this case I understand not downsizing until your kids are established with a job/place to live.

            Depending on equity and their mortgage payment it may not even be possible to downsize without paying more per month. That’s the insanity of the current market.

            Remember this is an occupied family home with an unoccupied room. Not a whole property.

            What would you suggest?

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        a lot of older people downsize when their kids move out,

        And we plan to, when both kids move out. But just one kid, with one five years behind the other? But anyway, isn’t moving the guest space to the main house section and renting out the apartment essentially “downsizing” to a three-bedroom anyway? Either way, the house remains a two-unit house. If somebody wants a temporary living situation by themselves or with one partner, what is wrong with them renting an apartment from me?

        Look, I get it, the system is set up to screw people over to get big corpos big money. If somebody is living in apartment for a decade, that is a fucked up situation. But where I live there are military single young’uns wanting to get out of barracks for a year or two before their tour is done and they transfer, or regularly traveling nurses or others who come seasonally for work who aren’t in a position to buy a house and wouldn’t want to.

        This whole “no good landlords” reeks of the same mentality as “no good lawyers.” Yes, there are a lot of greedy, unscrupulous (or overly adversarial) lawyers, but there are situations where having a lawyer is really important and there are plenty of good ones for those situations. The problem is a system that allows and encourages the profession to be abused.

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          This whole “no good landlords” reeks of the same mentality as “no good lawyers.”

          Not the same at all, as lawyers do work to get paid.

          Landlords rent-seek by charging access to important and scarce property that they themselves don’t use. They extract value through ownership alone, and add no labor value of their own to the process, that the tenants as owners couldn’t do for themselves.

          If somebody wants a temporary living situation by themselves or with one partner, what is wrong with them renting an apartment from me?

          What gives you the right to these people’s paychecks? If you’re not using it, then sell it, and don’t rent-seek.

          There is nothing defensible about being a landlord. Its not exactly the same as owning slaves or owning capital, but all three are based on absentee ownership and extracting value from working people.

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            They extract value through ownership alone, and add no labor value of their own to the process, that the tenants as owners couldn’t do for themselves.

            What about landlords that do repairs themselves though? Is that not by definition labor or am I missing something here?

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              The tenants can do upkeep themselves, or pay people to do that. Rent-seeking can still exist even if the rent-seekers promise to do maintenance (which in reality they don’t have much interest in doing, especially if it doesn’t add value to the property). Tenants often have to live for months with broken ACs, appliances, because their landlords have no desire to upkeep temporary items. The yearly lease is signed, and they’re getting their money.

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                My first landlord sucked, my second landlord was ok, but I suspect most wouldn’t be. They repaired everything in a timely fashion, and waived my rent for three months when I got laid off to let me get back on my feet. Still only made sense because I was in college and wasn’t sticking around that area long enough to justify buying then selling a property, but for the context acceptable landlords can exist.

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            add no labor value of their own to the process

            Huh? Do you think it’s not labor when they fix broken doors, outlets, change locks, upgrade toilets, fridges, etc.? Some landlords even do it themselves without hiring subcontractors.

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            23 hours ago

            What gives those people a right to a paycheck? Why aren’t they just making things and selling them.

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        First, that doesn’t solve the problem because then somebody else has two units in one building.

        Second, downsize… from a four bed to a three bed? Not sure what sense that makes. Our needs won’t have changed dramatically.

        Another piece that I didn’t mention is that I’m in the military, in a place with 3-year tours (so fairly temporary), and the young single people who arrive usually don’t wany anything too permanent, and are not in a position to buy. But I do know what their allowance for housing it, so I would be able to charge less than their allowance for housing, meaning they would get money out of the deal (and stuff is expensive here, so I’m not sure how they live anyway), and I get a respectful, reliable tenant (and we could offer home-cooked meals to whoever stays).

        I know it’s a unique circumstance, and an exception hardly disproves the rule, but I don’t think “there’s no such thing as a good landlord” is a true blanket statement.

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        A lot of kids move back after college. I definitely wouldn’t downsize until my family was secure and for sure no longer needed the space.

        Now the question is it better to allow that space sit vacant or rent out the space.

        I think there is a defensible position for renting out a temporarily unused space in your primary home versus buying vacant properties solely to rent.

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        Moving is kinda stressful though, but if you can manage that downsizing would probably be the right call.