Ik the bar and club scene have women but it’s not likely to go anywhere plus one or both parties are drunk. Just curious to see what people think on the topic. The beach is a spot I’m trying to push myself to talk to women at

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    Based on the way you’ve worded this, I’d say the best advice is don’t try to talk to women, just talk to people. Find people who share a common interest with you, and just hang out with them doing what you enjoy. Just live your life, and the talking to women part will happen naturally at some point.

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      My advice for anyone that wants a loving relationship is to expand your social circles. Spending time with friends, meeting their friends, and making new friends. Join a hobby club or a team sport. The person you meet through friends, who you already have commonalities with, is probably gonna be more compatible with you than the person you matched on tinder for superficial reasons.

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        Also, if you have good friends, they may intentionally introduce you to people they think would be a good fit for you.

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          This. Surround yourself with good people and your life will be better in general.