• ѕєχυαℓ ρσℓутσρє@lemmy.sdf.org
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      18
      arrow-down
      102
      ·
      1 year ago

      Okay, I’m gonna bite the bullet and say it. This is disheartening. I’m not one to clutch pearls, but come on. Would you say this about anyone else? Dogs? Cats? Anything at all? Do you understand how fucked up it is? I just don’t get it. It was the same in Reddit, and it’s fucking same in here. Why do you hate children? You don’t wanna have them, that’s fine. Why would you say these things?

      Maybe you’re joking. Even after assuming that you are, this is in poor taste and a fucked up thing to say.

      • Sephtis-6@kbin.social
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        34
        arrow-down
        6
        ·
        1 year ago

        U don’t hate children but what i hate is that one child with shitty parents will ruin the entire flight for everyone else.

        • Mowcherie@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          2
          arrow-down
          1
          ·
          1 year ago

          It’s usually the air pressure causing the kid some pain from mild barotrauma / airplane ear. They can’t help it. No amount of good or bad parenting changes the pressure differential in the inner ear.

        • Cypher@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          13
          arrow-down
          31
          ·
          1 year ago

          Do shitty parents and upset children exist? Absolutely.

          Yet everyone seems to ignore that maybe, just maybe, that child is being “shitty” despite having good parents.

          Maybe the kid has a medical issue causing pain and discomfort and there’s not a damn thing the parent can do except get on that flight to see a specialist.

          Maybe she’s fleeing domestic violence and needs to get to family to safe.

          Maybe the mother has postpartum depression and unfortunately cannot properly care for her child so she’s seeking help elsewhere.

          Fuck maybe the kid has an undiagnosed brain tumour that’s going to kill them. I know people that happened to.

          If you go around assuming everyone else who inconveniences you in the slightest is a shit person, you will be a shit person.

          So get over yourself. You might have a slightly less comfortable flight while that poor parent might be going through the worst time in their life.

          • TopShelfVanilla@sh.itjust.works
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            22
            arrow-down
            9
            ·
            1 year ago

            See, here’s the neat thing about things. You get to choose what you do and don’t care about. Empathy should not go so far as to cost. Your baby is not my problem and it’s your responsibility to keep it that way. I have my own, I didn’t take them to public places till they were able to have some self control. Is that always possible? No, but it’s really obvious if you are the type of person who doesn’t even try.

            • Cypher@lemmy.world
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              9
              arrow-down
              16
              ·
              1 year ago

              Part of using public transport is that you need to share it with the public, which is why I broadly detest it and cannot comprehend the fuck cars weirdos.

              That said when I do use public transport I fully expect noisy children, insufferable karens and the occasional nut job.

              Your concept of empathy seems to be severely lacking.

              • ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                11
                arrow-down
                3
                ·
                edit-2
                1 year ago

                I expect

                noisy children, insufferable karens and the occasional nut job

                but that doesn’t mean I have much empathy for them.

                Being loud in public imposes a cost on the people around you. In our society parents with babies are generally allowed to impose such a cost, but so are raving lunatics…

              • rexxit@lemmy.world
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                2
                arrow-down
                12
                ·
                edit-2
                1 year ago

                Part of using public transport is that you need to share it with the public, which is why I broadly detest it and cannot comprehend the fuck cars weirdos.

                Couldn’t agree more. The anti car movement among young millennials and Gen Z is weird as hell to me. I’ve lived in a large city and taken well designed public transit for years. Compared to living in a small city and driving, it’s awful - so I left. There’s a literal loss of freedom and autonomy that comes with it, and I can’t fathom why the younger crowd wants to live in crowded apartments and post angry screeds to r/fuckcars. I like walking and hiking and biking too! I have no desire to do it in a city, so I have to drive somewhere uncrowded to do it. If public transit served those places, they would be crowded.

                • IncognitoErgoCvm@reddthat.com
                  link
                  fedilink
                  arrow-up
                  5
                  ·
                  edit-2
                  1 year ago

                  If you live in NA, you haven’t lived in a walkable city designed for people over cars. You can find clearer explanations of the rationale from Strong Towns or NotJustBikes.

                  Your concerns are not unfounded, but they would benefit from some context.

          • Sephtis-6@kbin.social
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            14
            arrow-down
            5
            ·
            1 year ago

            Of course these things do exist but most of the time(at least in my experience) the problems are shitty parents.

            For example I had 2 kids crawling under my seat for the whole flight(takeoff and landing included) and the parents just watched something on the phone.

          • mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            4
            arrow-down
            7
            ·
            1 year ago

            Yet everyone seems to ignore that maybe, just maybe, that child is being “shitty” despite having good parents.

            If you’re bringing an infant onto a plane, you’re a shitty parent.

            Maybe she’s fleeing domestic violence and needs to get to family to safe.

            You don’t need a plane for this

            Maybe the kid has a medical issue causing pain and discomfort and there’s not a damn thing the parent can do except get on that flight to see a specialist.

            You don’t need a plane for this

            Maybe the mother has postpartum depression and unfortunately cannot properly care for her child so she’s seeking help elsewhere.

            You don’t need a plane for this

            I think you can figure out the pattern for the rest of your points.

      • Safeguard@beehaw.org
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        26
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        edit-2
        1 year ago

        As a parent of two boys, i feel that much of the annoyance of no-children-having people is due to parents not putting boundaries for children in place.

        Children scream because of attention. It means they are not getting it.

        Start walking around with the kid to calm it down. Its your job as a parent. You cannot stay seated and act like “what are you gonna do? They are children ! They scream!”

        No. You are a bad parent for letting them just scream.

        Having said that, babies sometimes just scream without reason. Perhaps, and I mean this, if you have a baby that is prone to doing this, do not travel in confined spaces, or dine at restaurants until that phase of screaming is over.

      • Mossy Feathers (They/Them)@pawb.social
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        33
        arrow-down
        16
        ·
        edit-2
        1 year ago

        You can train dogs and cats to be quiet and sit still. Not all of them will be happy doing it for a long plane ride, but you can do it. Babies on the other hand? Babies don’t give a fuck.

        Hungry?

        Scream.

        Tired?

        Scream.

        Happy?

        Scream.

        Mad?

        Scream

        You can do everything right and the baby will still scream.

        See, I have this speculation that early humans were fucking dumb, had no object permanence, couldn’t keep track of their kids, and generally pretended they didn’t exist unless they were being annoying. So their babies had to fucking scream as loud as a firetruck for their parents to not lose them.

        That’s the other thing too. The sound of a crying baby will drive anyone who doesn’t have antisocial personality disorder or has been driven deaf by the wonders of childcare completely insane. Why? Because while the sheer volume of a baby’s scream might not be as loud as a barking dog on an objective decibel scale, but when it comes to perceptual decibel levels, babies are loud. Our hearing sensitivity varies based on pitch. The higher the pitch, the more sensitive our ears are. On top of that, our brains are hardwired to have a reaction to a screaming baby, which can manifest itself as irritation, annoyance, frustration, and other negative emotions, because our primitive monkey brains are screeching, “WHY WON’T YOU TAKE CARE OF BABY!?” but we can’t do anything because it’s not our baby.

        That’s why people like to make jokes about dead babies, infant abuse, etc. Because babies are annoying as hell and literally everything they do is designed to make sure we know they’re there at all times.

        Edit: AND ONE MORE THING, have you ever wondered how a parent can love their baby when it’s quiet but hate it when it’s awake? Yeah, that’s almost certainly a result of primitive humans trying to take advantage of the fact that the annoying poop demon was finally quiet and wasn’t ear-fucking their monkey brain into guilt-tripping them anymore, so that they could ditch their babies when they were sleeping. So you can probably thank the negligent, sociopathic protohumans for babies being annoying as shit.

        • GreenMario@lemm.ee
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          16
          arrow-down
          2
          ·
          1 year ago

          I love this theory that early (and current) humans were so incompetently stupid that we evolved to fucking scream all the time just so they don’t walk away and forget us.

          Considering how many kids get left in locked cars in the summer, as well as no other species of animal has annoying ass babies I have to canonize this as the Truth.

          • Mossy Feathers (They/Them)@pawb.social
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            10
            arrow-down
            2
            ·
            edit-2
            1 year ago

            Consider this as well: if you’re a primitive human and you have to take your baby somewhere, you’re going to be praying to whatever deity(s) you believe are watching over you that your baby understands the severity of the situation and doesn’t start screaming in the middle of the jungle. 'cause if it does, every predator in a 5 mile radius is going to hear your baby screaming and dinner bells will start going off in their heads. Our only major survival traits are our near-infinite stamina (if properly trained) and ability to magically fuse or deform useless objects into something useful. Additionally, the usefulness of both of those traits diminishes with the size of the group as a single human with a spear is far less likely to survive a tiger attack than two humans with spears. To put it another way, your baby will actively alert predators that you’re burdened with its existence and that you could be free food so that you get removed from the gene pool if you’re stupid or unlucky enough to travel alone.

        • SlopppyEngineer@discuss.tchncs.de
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          9
          ·
          1 year ago

          Babies evolved to cry all the time because their parents had this habit of making the species that just looked at the baby in a weird way go extinct.

      • shortgiraffe@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        8
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        Would you say this about anyone else? Dogs? Cats? Anything at all?

        What an odd comparison, given that pets are crated and put in (a warm/pressurized part of) the cargo bay. Is that better then hiding under a seat or the overhead bin? It seems about the same to me.

      • SaltyIceteaMaker@lemmy.ml
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        12
        arrow-down
        10
        ·
        1 year ago

        No i wouldn’t think this about dogs and cats etc. As those are not annoying 24/7. Of course there are dogs and cats that are but the majority is well behaved… unlike Babies

  • ThePac@lemmy.ml
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    66
    arrow-down
    4
    ·
    1 year ago

    How anybody flies without noise-canceling headphones these days is beyond me.

  • ANGRY_MAPLE@sh.itjust.works
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    62
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    1 year ago

    I don’t get the rage that some of these comments have from seeing this meme.

    It doesn’t say that anyone actually did or said anything, just that their expression dropped after seeing an infant board a plane.

    People are allowed to be disappointed. I mean, I don’t think that most parents actually love hearing screaming and/or crying either. Is a (probably) brief facial expression seriously the same as hating all children, or wishing for them to dissapear to some of you guys? Jeez Louise.

    I mean, normally I wouldn’t give a hoot either way. Kids on the plane, no kids on the plane, whatever. If I had a migraine that day though, yeah, I wouldn’t be thrilled. I wouldn’t be upset at anyone for the noise in the slightest, but I also wouldn’t be joyful about it.

    Are we certain that that’s the actual contect of the picture, or did someone just say it was? Is this the accurate, OG text on the picture? Did any one of those people actually say or do anything beyond a facial expression when seeing very small children board the plane?

    Some of you guys need to take a deep breath and just relax. I’m referring to both extremes with this.

  • datelmd5sum@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    61
    arrow-down
    7
    ·
    1 year ago

    If pets can travel in the cargo hold hopped up on benzos and ketamine, why can’t babies? Or me?

  • mister_monster@monero.town
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    95
    arrow-down
    42
    ·
    1 year ago

    I’m gonna be unapologetically that person one day. Get into a tube full of stinky humans and complain that babies exist in the world. People need to get over themselves.

    • DrM@feddit.de
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      34
      arrow-down
      18
      ·
      1 year ago

      Especially now that Noise Cancelling headphones are everywhere and work as good as they do. Since I’ve got my Sony headphones a crying infant becomes only a really minor inconvenience

    • MissJinx@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      4
      ·
      1 year ago

      Tbf I don’t think babies are the worst. They cry, but that’s it. The kids that can talk walk and kick you are. And also let’s always remember that the major anger is not about the kids but the lazy parents that think everyone else should suffer so that THEY don’t have to deal with it.

  • _CottonCandyUnicorn_@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    61
    arrow-down
    15
    ·
    1 year ago

    I had a man in his 60s tell me “if you board a flight without noise canceling headphones in 2023, that’s on you.”

    We were flying to Italy (from US) with our 5 month old to visit my Aunt one last time before she passed away a few months later. Baby cried here and there for a total of maybe 1.5 out of the 9 hours. We felt so guilty but people were incredibly nice at the end when we apologized for disturbing their flight.

    She’s a pretty good flyer overall but will throw her occasional 5 minute fits. I think about that man’s joke after working our asses off to calm her down.

    • ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      34
      arrow-down
      3
      ·
      1 year ago

      I don’t know what kind of noise-cancelling headphones he has but mine wouldn’t help against crying - they reduce the volume of buzzes, humms, and other background noises, but I can definitely still hear shrieks quite well.

      • _CottonCandyUnicorn_@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        1
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        Interesting. Not saying you’re wrong because, sure, I can hear some crying with mine too but with music or a podcast playing its a distant background noise that my brain just kind of ignores, I guess. But I like to do work on planes so now I’m wondering if I just got used to tuning it out when I’m zoned in. I’m also one of those weirdos that can sleep on planes. So… I Might be in a small group of outliers on this one.

    • Nioxic@lemmy.dbzer0.com
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      44
      arrow-down
      14
      ·
      1 year ago

      Being angry at babies is what pathetic people do.they cant do much about their situation.

      Its on their parents but… as you say… sometimes you just gotta fly. With the kid.

    • PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      12
      ·
      1 year ago

      Yeah, noise cancelling headphones delete the mechanical noise and the standard level of chatter. Screaming is left in that void to come right on through and into your brain. They don’t block angry baby screams, they make them stand out.

    • beatensoup@baraza.africa
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      14
      arrow-down
      27
      ·
      1 year ago

      When you realize most of those judgemental passengers were those kids like 20 years ago (2003’sh). 😀

      As long as there is effort from the parent’s side to help the baby adjust, then people should be more human and acknowledge this is how humans grow up!

      • scubbo@lemmy.ml
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        8
        arrow-down
        2
        ·
        1 year ago

        No-one’s claiming that it’s unreasonable or unprecedented for kids to be noisy and disruptive due to (among other reasons) still-developing brains that can’t fully process social norms and responsibilities.

        We’re saying that, given that everyone knows that fact, the parents who choose to bring poorly-behaved kids onto planes are being selfish and irresponsible.

        The kids are mostly blameless in these situations - they’re still developing, they can’t (depending on age) be expected to be fully responsible. It’s the parents that are selfish shitbags.

      • Ataraxia@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        2
        ·
        1 year ago

        I didn’t chose to be born nor did I chose to be a child. I have the right to be irritated though by other people’s mistakes. It is completely OK not to make humans. We are not just mindless beasts only good for reproduction. People have a right to find people’s poor life choices distasteful, lie smoking cigarettes and doing drugs.

    • generalpotato@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      12
      arrow-down
      29
      ·
      1 year ago

      Anybody that complains about children and babies can go fuck themselves. You shouldn’t have to feel guilty for being a parent.

      • PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        23
        arrow-down
        18
        ·
        1 year ago

        Yes you should. That child is going to face pretty bad economic and climate times. The likelihood of them dying from climate change or starvation is going up. And because of covid damaging immune systems, dying of the increasing numbers of illnesses running around. Not to mention the return of once defeated diseases due to anti-vax movements.

        They chose to bring a kid into a world of misery because they were needy, or they thought it would be cute, or whatever. Selfish reasons. That’s who should go f themselves.

        • _CottonCandyUnicorn_@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          1
          arrow-down
          5
          ·
          1 year ago

          The likelihood of each of us dying goes up every day we wake up. So by your logic we might as well just all kill ourselves now and get it over with? As much as I agree with your list of real concerns, your suggesting we should put an end to human kind altogether because life is getting harder each generation?

            • generalpotato@lemmy.world
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              4
              arrow-down
              8
              ·
              edit-2
              1 year ago

              Yes, I should hole myself in my house because I could potentially get hit by a car tomorrow. That’s what your reasoning sounds like.

              Look, yes, the world is grim and the climate is changing, but why shouldn’t I instill the harsh realities of this world in my children so that they can grow up and cope and deal with this stuff. This sort of stuff is part of upbringing that should be instilled in our children so that they don’t grow up and make those mistakes.

              Even more importantly, we should all lead by example and show them, by example, by being more active in the causes we care about enough to pursue so that life is more meaningful than mere existence.

              This is how I was raised, and that’s how I intend to raise my children instead of cowering away from it and choosing not to have children which seems like the easy way out and really, is pretty pathetic.

              So yes, people can go fuck themselves if they can’t deal with crying children. :-)

          • Ataraxia@lemmy.world
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            1
            arrow-down
            1
            ·
            1 year ago

            Maintaining the status quo is what keeps humanity from progressing. Slavery was acceptable and still is in many places, except for where the status quo was challenged. Having kids should no longer be the status quo and it won’t be long until civil rights catch up to the abusive nature of being created without consent.

  • MuffinHeeler@aussie.zone
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    50
    arrow-down
    5
    ·
    1 year ago

    Maybe it’s different in the USA, but I’ve travelled a lot and don’t think I ever remember a long haul flight without multiple babies and young children. It’s just a fact of travelling.

    I recently did a 16hr flight solo and the other 3 seats in my row of 4 were parents and a toddler.

    That’s just part of flying and you should plan for it (noise cancelling headphones, sleeping tablets, ear plugs).

  • NewAgeOldPerson@reddthat.com
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    50
    arrow-down
    11
    ·
    1 year ago

    This is one of those things I see people complain about everyone complaining. Like vegans or CrossFit people. I’ve met far more people complaining about complaints than actual incidents.

    Most of us get it. It’s kids. I’ve seen obviously not emotional support animals brought in by asshats. Kids aren’t my concern.

  • explodicle@local106.com
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    49
    arrow-down
    13
    ·
    1 year ago

    I don’t think hours of noise canceling headphones are a realistic solution for everyone, like people with autism or sensitive ears.

    What we should have is a “children’s section” in the back of the plane. If your party only contains adults, then you can only book in the adult section until it’s filled, and same with parties that have kids. Parents don’t want to disrupt everyone, but imagine this on a longer bus or train ride!

    • setVeryLoud(true);@lemmy.ca
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      22
      ·
      1 year ago

      I DROVE across Canada rather than dare take a plane with a possibility of screaming and kicking children. Sensory issues are a bitch.

    • Saik0@lemmy.saik0.com
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      24
      arrow-down
      5
      ·
      1 year ago

      When I bring my whole family somewhere I almost always book the farthest back on the plane I can. There doesn’t have to be specific sections… just people with common courtesy.

      but one thing I’m noticing as a common theme in these threads is that there’s an innate blame on the children/parents. Kids oftentimes CANNOT pop their ears due to how narrow their Eustachian tubes are. https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/flying-ears.html There can be cases where the baby’s ears actually tear if the Eustachian tubes are blocked due to a cold or something of that nature.

      The better answer is to just educate them in a friendly manner. If you do it tactfully then maybe junior will simmer down and everyone can move on without this passive aggressiveness we see in the photo. Giving the kid a bottle (if they’re that young) is often all that needs to happen to work the tubes open a little bit to relieve the pain.

      Now… if you’re a parent… and have a colicky little one… skip the plane if you can. You know your kid. If they’re not going to take to the plane well, then you’re just being a dick to everyone around you.

    • SuddenDownpour@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      21
      arrow-down
      2
      ·
      1 year ago

      I’ve had to use canceling headphones for several hours a day for months due to asshole neighbours. Doing that provokes and exacerbates migraines. Using common sense and separating noise emitters from noise sufferers should always be the first step.

    • victron@programming.dev
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      5
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      1 year ago

      Yep, during booking they should only show the back rows available if you’re traveling with children of certain age. It should be simple, I think.

  • taiyang@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    30
    arrow-down
    5
    ·
    1 year ago

    I have a dysfunctional baby. We took an 8 month old on a plane to Japan because of a family tragedy and she freaking got excited when we hit turbulence and when we landed. Five other babies lost their shit but my kids all giggling.

    Actually, she also lost her shit in a literal way, Jesus fucking Christ the amount of poop that came out after the pressure change or someone. Ain’t nobody talks about that but all babies shit their pants at landing— pretty sure.

    • GreenMario@lemm.ee
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      14
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      1 year ago

      Get her a dirt bike and a ramp. You may have a future stunt woman on your hands.

  • TacoButtPlug@sh.itjust.works
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    31
    arrow-down
    7
    ·
    1 year ago

    Why not make an airline for people with kids and then they could deck the inside of the plane out to make it fun for kids complete with a flying tube sized playground, maybe a mini arcade, and definitely a ball pit. The pilots could even be those creepy ass animatronic creatures from Chuck-E-Cheese.

  • Beeko🐈@lemm.ee
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    31
    arrow-down
    10
    ·
    1 year ago

    This ass taking weird selfies in his first class seat looks so entitled

  • I’m gonna be that guy in about a week, kid is 6 months. Any seasoned parents got good tips? It’s not a long flight at least, only 2h.

    Edit: Thank you all, I read every one of your replies. Flight goes at 6am, but we booked a night at the airport hotel so we just have to walk across the street. Baby will be in a carrier and get the bottle during takeoff/landing. Fingers crossed.

    • DrMango@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      29
      arrow-down
      6
      ·
      1 year ago

      I think most people will give you credit for trying. Parents get it, non-parents who are non-assholes will also have some level of tolerance as long as it looks like you’re doing your best to keep the child calm and quiet.

      Shit happens. Kids are unpredictable.

      You can also try a baby dose of benadryl to knock them out just before takeoff.

      • Comment105@lemm.ee
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        26
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        edit-2
        1 year ago

        Googling your benadryl solution results in what I can only describe as the Internet desperately yelling at me to NOT DO THAT

        The specific search terms being “benadryl to make baby sleep”, resulting in the Office of the Child Advocate Connecticut Child Fatality Review Panel’s writing in all-caps

        “CAREGIVERS SHOULD NEVER USE BENADRYL OR OTHER ANTIHISTAMINES IN ORDER TO GET THEIR INFANTS TO BE QUIET OR TO SLEEP. ANTIHISTAMINES LIKE BENADRYL SHOULD ONLY BE USED WHEN PRESCRIBED BY A LICENSED MEDICAL PROVIDER.”

        • Enigma@sh.itjust.works
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          2
          ·
          1 year ago

          Try googling infants or children’s Benedryl. Definitely never give your kids regular adult meds. But the infant/child options should be okay.

            • Enigma@sh.itjust.works
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              3
              ·
              1 year ago

              IMO, yes. As long as you’re following the label instructions. Otherwise, it shouldn’t be offered OTC. Also, as long as your child has no health conditions that may cause unwanted side effects. Your child should be getting regular check ups so as a parent, you should have an understanding of what is or isn’t okay for your child.

              I’ve given my kids OTC meds without consulting their doctor first. I just read the label and gave them the recommended dosage. Sadly, they’re still kicking (jk jk, I love my kids lmao).

    • Enigma@sh.itjust.works
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      17
      ·
      1 year ago

      To avoid the screaming ear popping, have them eat some baby food, or those teething crackers. The sucking and chewing should help pop their ears.

    • beatensoup@baraza.africa
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      12
      ·
      1 year ago

      Not a seasoned parent but have been through this process. Try to get enough sleep yourself so you can give the necessary attention while traveling.

      2 hours in the plane also means like another 3 hours in the car + airport queues. Don’t forget that bit.

      Sleep deprivation is a great reason why parents are angry with kids and can’t focus even for a minute due to irritability.

    • June@lemm.ee
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      8
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      1 year ago

      Child free by choice person here, though not the child hating kind.

      At the end of the day, do your best. Your kid is all that matters. Focus on comfort, stuff to help with popped ears, and other soothing things that can help your baby sleep.

    • volvoxvsmarla @lemm.ee
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      6
      ·
      1 year ago

      When we flew for the first time (also short flight, baby was ~11 months) we had her in a carrier (ergobaby) and she fell asleep. I don’t know if you planned on booking an extra seat or not, we didn’t since it was a very small plane and there were no 3 seats in a row and also we didn’t come by car (so bringing an extra maxi cosi would have been a nuicance). If you don’t, you get a kind of extra seat belt to attach to your seat belt so the baby sits on your lap. What surprised us is that they didn’t force us to take her out of the ergobaby but looked at us, basically saying “noiccce” with their eyes, and let us just sit like this. It was insanely more comfortable and actuallt more secure than with that seatseatbeltbelt consturction. I guess they realized this, I mean the baby is completely strapped to my body. Anyway, I was very grateful that it turned out there was no policy about having to use the seatseatbeltbelt and prohibiting the carrier. This way our baby was secure and slept for most of the flight (also on the way back. She slept 50/60 minutes one way and 60/60 the other.) The other obvious recommendation is breastfeed (/bottlefeed) on the lap during takeoff and landing.

    • CptOblivius@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      6
      ·
      1 year ago

      Feed them on the way up and the way down. Sucking/drinking greatly helps with the air pressure changes. We did that and worked wonders. We would walk of and people would be surprised there were children were in the plane.

    • sylver_dragon@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      5
      ·
      1 year ago

      Assuming your partner is breast-feeding, pop that kid on a nipple. We flew several times with young kids and being able to suckle kept the little ones quiet for most flights.

    • prr@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      10
      arrow-down
      7
      ·
      1 year ago

      Don’t give a shit what other people think. I went through puking etc. in transport and public places. Just focus on kid comfort and prepare yourself with bags, wet wipes and backup clothes.

  • FollyDolly@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    30
    arrow-down
    11
    ·
    1 year ago

    This thread is goddamned train wreck. If you need to fly with young children, buy a big bag of those el cheapo foam ear plugs and pass them out to whomever wants some.

    I don’t have kids, and I have sensory issues that make baby crying noises physically painful, but I get it. Sometimes you need to take your tiny human places, and I just have to deal. It’s a part of life.