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  • A number of reasons:

    • For a number of people, they just could not fathom buying sex. Part of that is some kind of pseudoreligious idea, part of that is also that they just don’t understand why you would want casual sex. These people often don’t understand why in the hell you would want to be a prostitute or a John, and don’t see why it shouldn’t be illegal.

    • Another number of people see it as “losing”. As in, you would only ever want to buy sex if you’ve failed to get it some other way. Essentially, if you want to buy sex, something is wrong with you. So they look down on those who buy sex (even though they’re sometimes secretly those who also buy sex themselves - sort of like the anti-gay republicans who get caught… well, you know).

    • There’s also the view that no woman in her right mind would ever want to sell sex, framing selling sex as abuse. Never mind that that’s not necessarily the case and that selling sex is not just something women do, but if you see it like that, it makes sense to outlaw it, since you’re trying to remove a source of harm.







  • As much as this is the right answer, I understand where OP is coming from.

    OP: to expand: you’re not responsible for other people’s fears or phobias. The best thing you can do is exactly that: nothing, just act as if the person were a guy you don’t know. Trying to “prove” you’re not a threat is exactly the thing a person who is a threat would do, so you’re going to set off a whole bunch of alarm bells by doing that. And that’s not just valid for women - at least I would be kind of creeped out if some guy did some of the things some people have mentioned in this thread.


  • Honestly I’m not super impressed, even though I was hoping to be, because I would love to see more variety in the space. €380 is not all that much less than the just over €500 which can get you a Fairphone 5. The Fairphone 5 should have support until 2031, the GX6 Pro until 2032. Fairphone has a solid legacy of providing updates, which Gigaset doesn’t necessarily have - add to that, the GX6 Pro has a MediaTek chipset, and those are notoriously difficult to support, the Fairphone 5 has a Qualcomm which is much better in that regard. The review mentions regular lags - problems I don’t have with my FP 5 (unless I’m just not that sensitive). Honestly, the only upside I see to the GX6 (other than the price - but again the difference isn’t that big IMO, especially considering Gigaset doesn’t have the focus on sustainability and ethics) is the wireless charging, which I wish Fairphone would stop being so stubborn about.




  • somebody else singing a song is usually fine considering the amount of covers on YouTube

    Just because it’s on YouTube doesn’t mean it’s safe to do. YouTube has a whole range of agreements with different record companies so that in many cases copyrighted music will be used, but YouTube’s contentID (I think that’s what it’s called?) system IDs it and reroutes the ad revenue to the “appropriate” record company.

    IANAL, but I do know that compositions can be and do get copyrighted - see the avril Lavigne vs Rubinos case, where the allegation was that Avril Lavigne’s song “Girlfriend” sounded too similar to one of the Rubino’s songs. The case was, unfortunately for us, settled behind closed doors, but it goes to show how far copyright law can go. Which, TBH, is disappointing, because on the whole, I like the idea, but well, copyright ruins a number of things.

    As to the state of Peertube, I’ve not run into any problems. I’ve mostly watched videos that The Linux experiment uploads himself to Peertube, but that has been pretty flawless recently. And especially in a case like this, which could potentially generate a significant amount of traffic, I don’t see why it wouldn’t work from a technical standpoint - more peers generally means those kind of P2P systems work better.

    What I do worry about with Peertube is the whole copyright situation (again, copyright ruins everything). Since you’re reuploading what you’re watching to others, if copyrighted content were to be uploaded (which can happen very quickly in a music contest), it could potentially be open season for copyright trolls.

    I don’t want to be a downer, I honestly hate the way copyright ruins this stuff. But I think it’s important to keep in the back of your mind in order to avoid it turning into more headaches than fun.