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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • It’s been my goal to make an effort to reconnect with people through the months of September and November. We’ll see how it goes.

    I tried to reconnect with an old good friend of mine but he has kind of gone off the deep end, deep into drugs and conspiracy theories. We used to see eye-to-eye on things. Used to be compassionate, informed. Kind of a burnout now.

    He asked me recently what I thought about “the shot” knowing my partner and I both worked in hospitals during that time. He got immediately cold when I was blunt about my pro-vaccine stance after he prodded. After he got cold, I reciprocated and that’s that. Oh well. Hope he finds stability. I can’t put out everyone’s fire.

    My sister is another story that I started to write about, but I think I’ll save that for another time. That one naturally hurts the most.


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    My friend, do what makes you happy – especially so when not at the expense of someone else. Your family’s input is somewhat irrelevant in this case. It only matters whether you think you’ll feel more free thereafter.

    Divorce is perfectly fine no matter what age you are. Rid yourself of these archaic religious tropes and you’ll feel so liberated.


  • Oh wow, yeah, truly small. It depends on your own outlook and how willing you are to assimilate, or if you’re okay with being kind of an outcast who sticks to themselves. If for instance you’re a young progressive atheist moving to a rural Tennessee town of deeply religious conservatives, yeah that’s not going to be fun. Small Vermont ski town? You’ll fit right in. Alaskan town? They’ll be conservative, sure, but given the weather and isolation, people have a tendency to rely upon each other and that brings the community closer together.

    I grew up rural just outside a town of about 30,000 that was just transitioning to a formally-designated small city. You could go to the grocery store and not see people you knew 2 out of 3 times, I’d say. It’s not always bad. We’re social creatures and the internet has gotten us away from that, somewhat detrimentally.



  • To each their own, but similar to glp-1, not for me. I’ll just age naturally and do my best to maintain levels via diet and exercise.

    I had one of the weirdest conversations with acquaintances at a lunch outing one time, and it was about them using testosterone to, uh, not look like Joe Rogan? Idk. They were all conservatives and certainly the first to be opposed to LGBTQ+ rights or other forms of gender-affirming care.












  • This may sound like an odd question, but why are you dating? What are you seeking out that you don’t have now?

    I guess what I’m trying to say is my philosophy is to not go out of the way to find someone directly, but rather build one’s own self confidence and communal hobbies that naturally draws you to people, friends or love interests alike.

    Ironically I ended up meeting my soul mate within a year of committing to being content with being single. That altered my mindset and I guess made me more attractive and focused on self-improvement.