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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • Yes, I’ll tell my mother to host a PiHole.

    Of course bringing it with her would require something to tether it to other than the phone she’s actually using as a phone (I think), and a way to power it all. She’s going to need a bigger purse.

    Or she could access it remotely. I doubt her residential DSL comes with a static IP, so she’s going to have to get a domain name and set up dynamic DNS… oh, and route the appropriate port to her Pi through the ISP’s NAT router, assuming it actually supports that. Maybe she should buy the latest fancy one from GL.iNet with those big antennas and OpenWRT.

    I think I might send her that AdGuard link instead.






  • Part of it is a cultural difference. There’s a formal training and apprenticeship program in Switzerland to become a waiter. The USA relies more on informal on-the-job training than formal education in many fields. In a large, professional police department, it’s often the case that a new hire will be assigned a field training officer for a while; that’s likely to be longer for someone without experience.

    The higher level of violence isn’t just lack of training. Some of it is cultural, based on an “us vs. them” mentality. Some of it is based on actual dangers; people in Switzerland pretty much never respond to a traffic stop by shooting at the police, but that’s not a rare occurrence in the USA.





  • People aren’t always honest on dating sites. Something they’re particularly likely to be dishonest about is what kind of relationship they’re looking for. Women will sometimes say they’re looking for a long-term relationship even if they might be open to something else because saying they’re open to casual sex is “slutty”. Men will often say they’re looking for a long-term relationship even though they’re not because women won’t meet them if they don’t say that because it’s “slutty”.

    That may be what you encountered: a man trying to see if you really meant what your profile said, or it might be a man trying to deceive you to get casual sex when that’s not what you’re looking for. Either way, a follow-up will not lead to the long-term relationship you’re seeking.

    Edit: I also wouldn’t characterize his behavior as “ghosting”. Ghosting is cutting off communication without explanation. He gave you an explanation.