• WeirdyTrip@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    10 hours ago

    Holy shit this hits so hard for me. In a good way. Was in a bad relationship a while back and got pregnant right toward the end of it. I did struggle with the decision to get an abortion because I was still in this stupid place of sugarcoating how bad he and I were together. But jfc I am SO RELIEVED every time I reflect back on that time and my decision to abort. If I hadn’t, he 100% would still be fucking up my life today. Instead I am free ❤️

    • boonhet@sopuli.xyz
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      9 hours ago

      I was the other half in a similar situation and while I love my child, I’m now connected to my ex for the better part of the next 2 decades. And she’s been trying her hardest to make our lives hell.

      You made the right call. I obviously wouldn’t change it if I could go back now, but you at least had the courage to make the right decision at the right time.