Just yesterday, I completed an application for snap benefits. That’s all I wanted and needed assistance with. Because I’m a part-time worker, my finances at times get strapped because I’m paying off a loan from a bank and it makes my working budgets feel a little compressed. I need some breathing room here.

I hope I get them but I never intend to be on it forever, I just need some financial security and resource assurance. I’ve always tried being a person who looked to things like this and only go to them when I needed them, not because I wanted them and mooch off from them.

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    No. I pay taxes while using none of those programs and those programs are there to give people a hand up who are struggling. You deserve a roof over your head, a warm & safe place to sleep, clean water to drink and bathe, and decent food to eat. You are human and trying to meet your basic needs. People who have more can support those who have less. Simple.

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    Fuck no

    Every paycheck for twenty plus years, I calmly and without complaint saw taxes and fica taken out of each check because that’s how you have a social safety net.

    I sure as fuck didn’t pay in because I could afford it, I paid in because it’s mandatory.

    So you, me, whoever, is 100% justified in using the social safety net we all paid and pay into because that’s what it’s for in the first place.

    Never, ever feel guilty about it brougham.

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    Do you want those taxes going to your food or for more corporate bailouts and fancy military hardware milk them as much as you can.

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    Nope. Used them for years. Now I pay a fucky amount of taxes with my high paying job to support them. Use them. We live in a society.

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    The people I know personally who act like it’s so terrible to be helping someone else have all received significant assistance from the government and their communities.

    Please accept the assistance. That’s what you need.

    I don’t care if it’s forever. Everyone deserves to eat and a place to sleep and everyone deserves to know that they will still have food and a safe place to sleep later. Just don’t try to keep it from others once you’re back on your feet.

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    That’s what your tax dollars are for.

    Take your entitlements - you’re entitled to them.

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    When I got out of the military I didn’t filed for disability when I got out, because I didn’t want to be a “leach on the system.” I was stupidly very libertarian back then. I completely regret it now. I’m 45 years old with the hearing and back of a 65 year old. Plus the $10k I’ve had to spend because of how bad they fucked my teeth.

    The systems are there to support you. But jackasses like Reagan made us all not want to be “welfare queens” just so he could line his and his buddies pockets while they go off and be pedophiles. So get what support you need. There is no need to feel guilty for something you qualify for.

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      If you were in the military you already were, if we want to put our ultra libertarian hat on.

      So get what support you need. There is no need to feel guilty for something you qualify for.

      Just worth saying again 😌

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    I paid into this, even if you did not, if you qualify, then you must take advantage of it. This is my gift for you.

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    The programs are there for a reason. Don’t listen to idiots with an IQ lower than the number of M&Ms that come in a Halloween serving.

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    No but the rules for eligibility have changed drastically. I hope you get the assistance you need as long as you need.

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    I think guilt tripping is part of it in the US. Here (Europe) we just apply for the stuff that were eligible for.