• FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com
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      17 hours ago

      It’s called “sounding”, and it’s not exclusively men who do it

      Women do as well, albeit less frequently than men

      It’s significantly easier for guys to do

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      18 hours ago

      If it rocks their boat, I have nothing against it if they do it in a safe way, with purpose-made toys and the like. If they end up as a cost on the healthcare system, just like anyone else taking stupid risks and then whining about it, fuck them.

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        17 hours ago

        People who are into sounding tend to do their research and take things carefully

        Why are you so angry?

        You came at this with immense (and unwarranted) hostility

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          17 hours ago

          Because I know how much I am paying for smokers and drinkers.

          Is the kink called sounding?

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            17 hours ago

            It is

            And if you think it’s causing a significant burden on the health system, then you’re obviously rather hysterical

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              It is the behavior disregarding the common good I am against.

              I cannot imagine something I never even knew existed to singularly cause a burden on the healthcare system.

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                17 hours ago

                You came out angry and unpleasant

                Your first statement was to create a straw man of people who enjoy something being a burden on society

                I feel sorry for you that anything new immediately takes your mind somewhere so frightened and small

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                  16 hours ago

                  Kinks are not new to me.

                  Given the crises some healthcare systems, including the one of my country, is facing, this is a very vivid concern of mine, and yes, I am angry about that.

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                    16 hours ago

                    I worked in emergency medicine, a lifetime ago

                    And I’m telling you that you need to pull the stick out of your arse, because you’re more interested in beating people with it while it’s jammed in there than actually doing anything meaningful

                    Nobody’s kinks are any burden on the health system, let alone significant ones

                    You’re looking for an excuse to be antagonistic while pretending that it’s about the greater good

                    Grow up.

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                    1. If you never knew it existed, that’s sad on your face.

                    2. How many people do you think get admitted for sounding? Or vacuum cleaner blowjobs? Or whatever other kink that has the potential to cause harm? It’s not a high number.

                    3. Do you go into the sun without putting on sunblock? Speed while driving? Go to the beach? If so, you should be angrier at yourself for the burden on health care. Stop being a moron.