I’m in a gay relationship and finally came out to my family this year, they accepted me. I brought my boyfriend home for the first time for the winter holidays. He started drinking heavily with my dad this morning, and now he’s borderline blackout drunk and very touchy… horny, to say the least. It makes me uncomfortable since I’ve never seen him like this, lol. And of course, he’ll probably be hungover on my birthday tomorrow.
I’m so sorry this is happening to you. Don’t let him use alcohol as an excuse for pushing your boundaries. If this is how he’s acting around your family at a holiday, how will he act when you’re alone? Somebody worthy of you would never do this. You deserve someone who can drink without disrespecting your body and your birthday.