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  • Crikeste@lemm.ee
    111·
    2 months ago

    This has got some weird “it’s a woman’s fault if they’re sexually assaulted” vibe. If anything, she is coerced. Chill on blaming victims.

    • Xeroxchasechase@lemmy.world
      412·
      2 months ago

      Oh well, I should’ve known it’d come to this… Anyway, you might want to chill on victimsing her and dismissing her agency. Or better yet, you can just take a sincere question at face value…

      • Wirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zone
        12·
        2 months ago

        A father-daughter dynamic means he had full control over her formative years and had full ability to groom her.

        I highly doubt he was a normal parent for 18 years then suddenly acted creepy and she was just ok with it.

        Without speaking to her as a person, it’s certain that if something’s happening it’s the result of grooming, therefore making her an SA victim.

        We can recognize that as the tragedy it is and still think she’s a bad person for other reasons, these aren’t mutually exclusive.

        • Xeroxchasechase@lemmy.world
          4·
          2 months ago

          Thanks. It’s obvious she was raised in an abusive family, but still surprise me. I definitely did’nt mean to blame the victim, just understand.

          • Wirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zone
            6·
            2 months ago

            Ah I understand, sorry for being blunt but there’s a lot of people acting in bad faith when they question victim’s actions in abusive situations.

            Rule of thumb is once abuse is involved, don’t assume people will react rationally, you may accidentally say something insensitive.

      • Crikeste@lemm.ee
        25·
        2 months ago

        I did take the question at face value, the face value was disgusting. You have big “grab them by the pussy, they let you do it” energy.