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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • The spark is temporary, in my experience it comes and goes in waves. But a relationship requires work, even if your bored with/frustrated at/unfulfilled by your partner, some level of effort and perseverance is where true love begins.

    There’s always a balance, don’t put effort into a sinking ship. But if you want a long term marriage your going to have to risk investing in someone who’s not currently satisfying you.

    Also get checked for anything external that could make you lose interest, like depression that fosters apathy or ADHD that fosters boredom. If it’s bad enough to end 5 marriages it may be that your brain is chemically unsatisfied.















  • So just allow Hitler to take over europe and make an ethnostate through mass exodus?

    If you’re talking about the nukes, I agree, they were unnecessary as Axis Japan was already on the decline.

    But to argue the entire war was preventable by just displacing jewish people is naive and borders on antisemitic.

    There might’ve been ways to prevent the war from starting, like not destroying Germany’s economy as a scapegoat for WW1 would have done a lot.

    But after the Nazis siezed power there’s nothing you could do to diplomacy the Nazis into being peaceful.


  • That’s part of it but it’s not that we don’t know how, it’s that google search is ruined now.

    Paid advertisements floating to the top, search engine optimization completely ruining any form of categorization, a deluge of spam websites that pump out irrelevant articles full of keywords (ironically now using GPT to make more articles).

    If you want to actually get real people talking you have to append “reddit” to the end. But now Reddit is also becoming shitty for search.

    Nowadays people realize if all you get from google search is ai and social media, then why not skip the middle man? Hence people using ai and even Tiktok in place of Google.

    I personally use Claude to ask for niche questions and it actually gets to the point answering what I’m asking. (I double check using the terms it gives me to read more on Wikipedia and ect.)