No pressure? You don’t think being upset about it counts? Does it count as pressure when she’s upset with you about something? Is your version of freedom the one where we’re all free to do things your way?

Is it all about the culture gap, or maybe it isn’t about the culture gap at all? Maybe it’s about the culture gap as she perceives it, rather than the culture gap as you perceive it?

Maybe you should start putting the person you love first? Perhaps that’s in your own best interests anyway? Maybe you’re just bad at being selfish?

I’m currently reading Jesus and John Wayne by Kristin Kobes Du Mez. You might find it interesting. I’m not sure how much I buy in, but it’s pretty wild.

Genuine serious question, and I’m certainly not implying that you should but, do you feel humiliated at all?

Dick pills and Fleshlights forever!

Hell yeah. I had OG Xbox live at my postgrad residence. At one point, my flatmate and I were ranked 6 in the world for doubles Top Spin. What a time.

“…you get to be relieved of your responsibilities for the day and go do something fun” is a terrible attitude to take about the underlying work if you’re trying to make games. If you didn’t enjoy making it, they won’t enjoy playing it.

Edit for the downvote: I have a small games studio. I also attended d.school and have an EMBA. Large companies will have some people who phone it in day-to-day. A small studio needs people to be committed and giving 100% basically at all times. If you’ve done your job properly, you might find that you have to force people to take time off or even go home at the end of the day. That’s what I was getting at. Field trips might form part of that engagement strategy, but not as a respite from an otherwise grim day-to-day.

Everything is an advertisement now. We even made ourselves into our own advertisements. The number 1 childhood aspiration is to become the most effective advertisement.