knightly the Sneptaur

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  • In what way is making a counter point disingenuous?

    It reveals that your intent is not to comprehend another perspective, but to insist upon your own.

    Why do I need to just blindly accept what someone says without any pushback?

    The thing that you’re being asked to accept is that this someone believes what they say they believe.

    Nobody’s asking you to blindly assume that this someone is being honest, but making a counterpoint is not the same thing as asking clarifying questions to better understand their perspective or probe it for the inconsistencies that would indicate deception.





  • My intent was to try to understand why people feel the way they feel. If I disagree with a reason someone has, am I just supposed to be like “oh, ok”, and move on?

    Make up your mind, is your point to understand why people feel the way they feel or to convince them to feel in a way you agree with?

    Am I not supposed to give any rebuttal to any points whatsoever

    Rebuttals are for arguments, not for understanding.

    If you can’t look at things from their perspective then you should be asking questions, not trying to convince them that their perspective is wrong.