Which one?
Which one?


I would be shocked if a place like that existed that didn’t charge a monthly membership fee, but I’m prepared to be proven wrong. I hope you find it!


When we go to a hotel, we prefer the Finnish level of service: make everything work and otherwise leave us alone.


Finnish people are stereotyped to sound monotone, enunciate clearly, speak directly, and tersely. This makes them seem unfriendly.
And then they expect you to stay 3 m away from them at all times, which intensifies their seeming unfriendliness.
At least these are the memes.


You might be done with people, not the internet.


At some point I stopped listening to him
Excellent. Sometimes, you are simply the person available for them to scream at. In situations such as that, pretending to listen without listening represents a useful strategy.
I hope you can make it past this incident soon. Time means distance means peace.


I have compassion for them. I don’t even blame them. I don’t know how to fix what’s broken, but I know that blaming and ridiculing them doesn’t work. If it did, then the situation would have improved by now.
When they fit, they’re excellent. I have the ones that I can keep in while sleeping. I am still occasionally surprised by how comfortable they feel to me.