Hello. I am a single, middle aged man from midwestern United States. Pic is not me.

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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • I have been thinking about trying online dating again. Not really looking forward to it because I expect it to be a mess.

    I think I’ll try a very minimalist approach on my profile because most people read profiles looking for reasons to reject. If I don’t give many possible reasons to reject then I should increase the pool of people to date. In theory, anyway.











  • I think this is a great answer.

    I would buy a camera security system so it’s always on and you have an automatic record. Something with a hard drive.

    Don’t say anything about it, just quietly set it up first pointing at your house. For “your security”. Then a few days later point those cams at their house / the street / their yard / etc. You may see more that you didn’t know was going on.

    Video evidence goes a long way. More than a person’s word, usually. Sadly.