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  • My wife has to be at work before 5 every day. We need to keep making our mortgage payment because paying off our shitty house is our best hope at maybe at least a partial retirement before I die. If the house is paid off, and I’m able to collect social security, maybe I’ll be able to be able to only work part time. I have no retirement funds

    So we’re both up around 4 every day. And in bed between 8 & 9p. If you just get up early every day because you have to, at some point you’re too tired to stay up late. The answer is necessity and responsibility.


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    6 days ago

    I actually agree with the sentiment of this post even though there are obvious exceptions. Your character doesn’t change when you’re drunk, just your inhibitions. So yeah, getting drunk reminds me I can be an asshole and probably I want to be more often than I do.

    But you know what I’ve never done while even blackout drunk? I’ve never cheated on my wife. Because I don’t want to do that. I’ve had crazy hot women ask me to hook up and I was too drunk to even say, sorry I’m married. All I could get out was naww.

    I’ve felt bad because I have seen devistation in the face of young women being blown off by an older dude but I was too drunk to express myself. I was also probably too drunk to be a great lover at that time, so maybe I did them a favor. But when you’re that drunk and the next morning all you can remember is destroying the ego of a skinny 25 year old, you know you didn’t imagine it.









  • There are very few with continuous testicular pain for up to a year, and that group usually also experiences reduced erection quality. That’s the 2%

    The smaller 1% experience pain for the rest of their lives. And again, reduction or complete loss of the ability to have quality erections.

    I’m somewhere in the middle of those two. Just over a year of nonstop pain, I had pretty much accepted I’d never live without it. But then it went away. It still comes back occasionally, but it isn’t nonstop. And my erections aren’t what they used to be, they vary from completely awful to maybe 90% at best. I got my vasectomy at 35.

    There are people who have to get it done a second time, but that wasn’t me. I’d rather not live anymore or never have sex again than do that again.