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Cake day: March 8th, 2025

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  • I have 3 litter boxes. They each have their own that the other can’t access (behind a door that they paw at and I let them enter and exit) and then one in a shared area.

    I have a mostly open floor plan so the only areas they can block each other in is really just one door in the house. But there isn’t much I can do about that one.

    They also both like to look out the front door which has a window front. Other animals come up so they like watching them.

    So my desk also has a window that faces my porch. I generally don’t let the cats on my desk but I recently gave in and just cleared out a spot for a cat so now they can both watch the porch without fighting over the front door.

    I don’t really want a cat on the desk but it’s a compromise I’ll make for now. Plus the young cat likes to sleep on the desk so it does make it easy to keep an eye on where he is.

    I def try to make sure the younger cat is entertained as much as I can.

    I have a lot of toys including electronic ones. He does like them and likes playing with the wand with me. He’s also able to play by himself with some toys. He occasionally plays on the cat tree.

    I got a wheel too but not been able to get either cat to use it. Treats nor toys nor laser pointer will incentive them to use the wheel.

    I definitely feel like young one sometimes picks on my older cat out of boredom.

    But I can’t supervise/entertain him every moment he’s awake.



  • I have definitely used boxes to try to block their line of sight.

    Also if I see one blocking a path I move them . Like hanging out near the hallway entrance where the two litter box accesses are.

    I also move food around during the day where there are two eating areas far from each other. And at night the cats are separated so it’s less of an issue then.

    Yeah I make sure each cat gets multiple one on one time with me and play time.

    They have certainly gotten better over these 4 months.

    It took probably 2 months before they could be left out together most of the day.

    But it feels like I’ve hit a plateau. Doesn’t feel like any more progress is being made.

    It honestly feels like I’m babysitting toddlers all day.

    I hear a smarl and a growl and have to get up from my desk and move a cat or chase one away or occasionally put one in the backroom for a while. On and off all day, every day.

    The only time it’s peaceful is when they are both sleeping.


  • Yeah these two get very loud. That’s how I always know I have to get up and grab the squirt bottle.

    They growl and hiss a lot all day.

    Honestly it’s usually the older cat making the noises. Probably telling younger cat to back off.

    I’ve wondered if young cat wants to play and isn’t getting the signal from old cat to back off, but when I pick him up to lock him in the backroom (which I do after a fight) he often growls and hisses too.

    So they are both in fight mode.



  • That’s fair.

    Surely he knows people don’t want these data centers. And is fully aware that he’s using underhanded unethical tactics to get it approved despite this.

    But maybe I’m giving these people more credit than they deserve.

    Most people with no ethics actually believe that what they do is fine and not wrong.