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  • SoftestSapphic@lemmy.worldtoFediverse@lemmy.worldwe need more users
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    3 days ago

    I came to this space in November of 2024.

    As a trans person I wanted community. So I checked out blahaj first. But, the queer community here is controlled by Ada who bans anyone she doesn’t like and i ticked her off once by not bowing to her judgement when it came to allowing trolls to stay in the space. This drama also splintered the 196 community, and neither 196 space has had the same number of participants since.

    So no more queer community for me. I’ve had to get that other places like Tumblr.

    I then decide to use the .db0 community to report what I feel is abusive behavior from .blahaj staff and after enough time they realized that they really don’t like people using the “report abuse community” to report abuse of specific spaces like blahaj. Banned for using the space for what it was created for.

    So no more .db0

    I’m just so tired of using this space, it feels just like reddit except there’s somehow even less accountability.

    Every week i feel less and less compelled to contribute

    I used to enjoy posting like a dozen memes a day and now I don’t post anymore. It’s not fun it’s a chore to keep feeding memes and engagement into this space that pretty much only has told me it hates me for the last year.

    Bad app :c


  • I have tried for over a year now to make this space enjoyable, and I’m kinda done.

    Every time I open this app there’s some random redditor shitting on every post and comment I make in good faith.

    This is a negative dopamine loop app. The only enjoyable part of it is trolling the peanut gallery.

    And as long as I can get positive dopamine loops from other social media then lemmy is just inferior as a place to spend time.





  • I’ve tried bringing up these complicated issues in the spaces we are encouraged to talk about them (.db0) and was banned for not complaining about the same things the mods cared about.

    Every week i contribute less to this space, i really wanted to support a reddit alternative, but this place doesn’t look like it will be much different.