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Cake day: June 21st, 2023

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  • It sucks big time for a while, there’s no set time for how long. What I can tell you is once some of that fog has cleared and you can focus on yourself, you can learn to fall in love with yourself again. At least for me, I realized I had my positive emotions tied so much into my old relationship that I didn’t know how to cope without that relationship there. We definitely had some co-depency issues that were extremely unhealthy, and without all that to distract me, I could finally start working on myself and figuring out who I am. What I want and don’t want. It’s a long road but if you can focus on self care and improvement, it will make things much easier and more fulfilling in the long run.









  • My coworker is that way and I have to remind everyone to just give her some space if she’s having a rough go of it. She doesn’t talk about what is going on because she doesn’t want to. She just wants to get through her shift. We should respect that. In fact, most of the time she will open up about it after a while when her feelings have eased up a bit.