No, the point of federation is that you can interact with other sites/servers from your own since the same protocol is shared. So from some-server.com they visited [email protected] and did their interaction. The same way you can go to the Music community at lemmy.ml ( https://lemmy.world/c/[email protected] ) without leaving lemmy.world and without having to create a new account. Your comments and interaction will be seen without problems by users of lemmy.ml .
Kbin is another software altogether from lemmy, so they are not counted.