This is me with the lotr wiki. Still haven’t managed to make it through all of the books.

Anyone making blanket statements about the specifics of attracting women is a moron.

And if the general advice you need is something like “act like women are people too” you’re the moron.

I’m okay with the existence of the corporate run server in your example so long as alternatives remain available and that corporate server can’t start requesting removal of “competition.”

Some amount of centralization isn’t bad, so long as people can still choose to be elsewhere.