I just don’t feel feminine, аlthough I have long hair, I use makeup and I can’t be called tomboy, but I think calling me a woman sounds ridiculous, I’m not sure why, has anyone dealt with this?

  • Miles O'Brien@startrek.website
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    2 hours ago

    Lmao my mom used to say real men don’t cry.

    One day as a teen I was angry and tearing up and she said that, so I just screamed at her “I’VE SEEN DAD AND GRANDPA BOTH CRY SO SHUT THE FUCK UP” And honestly I think she realized she was wrong at least about that, because she has never said it since even to my sister’s kids, and I didn’t even get in trouble for swearing at her.

    Cry away, fellow human. Disregard those who cannot allow themselves to feel emotions for fear of seeming “less than”.