• cheers_queers@lemmy.zip
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    7 days ago

    i dont think you know what teachers go through. elementary teachers get physically assaulted by their students and then get blamed by admin AND parents. teachers dont have shitty attitudes from their home life, they have it because they are exploited yet held to impossible standards.

    one teacher i know, quit her job after some fifth grade students showed her a print of her house on google maps, said they know where she lives and were gonna go there and rape and kill her daughter. she ended up in inpatient psychiatric care from this job. the kids in question were not expelled and nothing was done.

    • Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world
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      7 days ago

      Things have definitely escalated today. We didn’t have Google maps and other instant-stalking technology when I went to elementary school. Columbine and school shootings hadn’t been a thing yet either (though they would be, later on in my school years.) A lot of modern teacher stresses aren’t applicable to a critique of the elementary school teachers that I had.

      Also, I teach kids, specifically special needs students. Violent outbursts aren’t uncommon, we even have blocking pads for those situations. One of my coworkers got a concussion this summer in spite of it. I know it isn’t easy, but I also knew what I was getting into.

      It’s one thing to do the best with the situation you’re dealt, but it’s something else to lose your cool and take it out on your students. If I were ever to feel my spark for teaching start to fade, or a resentment of children set in, I’d move onto a different job. That wouldn’t be easy either, but it’d be a hell of a lot more ethical.