I don’t like my job, but I don’t hate it most days. I’m only there because I need the money and conditions are decent. I clock in, do my thing, clock out and try to enjoy my hobbies and eat decently.

I don’t believe most people would disagree with what I just wrote.

Mine is a blue collar job, physically demanding. The last 2 weeks have been working non stop from the beginning till clocking out, sometimes doing overtime that my employer pays, but not at a different rate. Yesterday I didn’t do my pause. Today I barely did it.

One younger coworker asked me if I enjoy doing my job and I asked him if he’s here as a volunteer. Obviously he is not, but he kept pestering me about me liking my job. I told him I like my hobbies and I’m here to work because I need money.

His is an office position btw, he sits way longer than I do.

By the look of his face you could tell this wasn’t an answer he was ready to accept. To me however, this younger coworker is naive (and stupid).

I plan to keep my conversations with this person to a minimum and not disclosing personal information around him, and I really hope he doesn’t talk to me anymore.

How would you deal with such a character?

Now I wonder if my answer can be used to fire me for ‘lacking motivation’, which is something any employer would write to justify firing somebody they don’t like.

This person is not a manager and is not a close friend of any manager afaik.

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    BLUF: You don’t deal with this.

    The maximum amount of interaction you have with this guy should be the minimum amount the job requires.

    Why do you feel a need to be honest about this, with this guy? WHY DO YOU FEEL THE NEED TO HONEST ABOUT THIS WITH ANYONE AT YOUR JOB

    Swear allegiance to the flag

    Whatever flag they offer

    Never hint at what you really feel

    Teach the children quietly

    For some day sons and daughters

    Will rise up and fight while we stood still

    If the topic comes up again just give him the answer you are convinced he wants to hear.

    Yeah man the job is great

    It shut down the topic and I am certain this topic that is in no way required of your professional interaction with this non manager who works in the office.

    With that said, bud find a job that you do enjoy. I work because I have too so my job is not my hobby but it something I enjoy doing.

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      Why do you feel a need to be honest about this, with this guy? WHY DO YOU FEEL THE NEED TO HONEST ABOUT THIS WITH ANYONE AT YOUR JOB

      lying is tiring. And I just want to clock in, do my job and leave.

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        Of course it is tiring. Work always is.

        You have to learn to play chess with work. You asked for a strategy and I have given you one.

        I think you should do some self reflection. IT seems too me that you like this job more than you think.

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          err… I didn’t mean the work is (mentally) tiring, I meant lying LYING is mentally tiring.

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            … …… yeah but I guess you don’t get that you can’t separate the that from work…