This will be a little controversial so please keep in mind this is c/nostupidquestions.
I feel like any relationship is, at its core, an agreement. An agreement between two people to spend their time, affection and dedication solely to each other. By virtue of their feelings for each other. This is normal.
However if it were truly up to me. I would just sleep with another girl every day of the week. I honestly don’t really care about spending time with her all that much. In fact, if I’m brutally honest. For me a relationship is a mean to get sex and I guess spending some time with her isn’t all that bad either. I am perfectly willing to stick to one woman. That is no problem to me whatsoever. But is this a healthy way of doing relationships?
I told her I wasn’t looking for anything too attached. And she is okay with that. But as far as I’m concerned the relationship side of things is more her thing than it is mine.