What would be a good sign coming out of such people?

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    Do you think it’s fair to think that just because you are able to, others can too? I’ve been living in Canada before moving to florida, opposite weather here, extremely hot, I try to stay cool as much as possible, it’s good that you “crossed a parking lot at a street” (assuming that is long distance, don’t extactly understand the meaning here), but I am not you man, different people, scenarios, circumstances.

    I know people are going to downvote this for me lol, again I ain’t justifying for those who actually don’t return when there is actually a cart corral nearby, but I am not trying to justify my own actions or argue for those who make this mistake without a genuine reason wantedly, in-fact as I’'ve mentioned in several other comments in this thread, I do online shopping mostly these days, so this does not even apply to me.

    I am simply trying to discuss from another not so popular perspective here in this thread.

    I am also wondering if people have different definitions of what “bad” could be, because to me, this is more about lack of responsibility and ignorance when you are able to return a cart, but you still don’t. If I saw someone doing this without a genuine reason like I have stated before, I don’t think that’d still make them a bad as a person, I’d consider them not so responsible and kindly ask them to return it.

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      If they’re physically able to push the cart somewhere they should be able to return it. Bar some edge cases I don’t see why someone wouldn’t return the cart.

      I think you have stricter definition of bad and a looser definition of acceptable reasons. For me “not responsible” is bad, like a minute amount but still in the bad zone, and tough weather and distance isn’t enough of a reason to not return the cart.

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        The thing is, pushing the cart to take groceries to a car is a must for a person isn’t it? The same can’t be said for returning it, and while I respect a lot that you seem to have returned the cart every single time even if there is no nearby return spot, I don’t see everyone being that way, especially when some stores barely have enough cart return spots on parking lots with PAID staff who are there to collect leftover carts.

        If I am being honest, when I do physically grocery shop, in most cases since I mostly order online, when I really only have to, I do physical visit and I don’t buy much, I just carry them with my hands to the car, I never had this issue lol.

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          I think a lot of people, me included, have been cart pushers or other similar minimum wage jobs so it’s a bit emotionally charged. For me even if there are staff it’s still not nice to pile work on them, you know? Like others in the thread said, I don’t value my time more than theirs.

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            I do understand where you are coming from, and I really hate to sound like that guy who wants the other to do the work for him, but unfortunately a few others (and I think I myself have done a not so great job at conveying what I am really trying to say here) have done a great job at making me sound like that.

            What I am just saying is that it is unrealistic to expect that from the majority of the public customers from doing that if there is not enough cart corrals, this is bound to happen until stores take action to make cart returns a must, and add more cart return points in the parking lot for customers with cars.

            Again I don’t really oppose this, I support this in-fact, I am only saying that we have to address this issue in a way where we are not JUST blaming the people doing this (excluding those who do this despite having a nearby cart corral), we also need to consider the lack of cart corrals issue that some stores have realistically.

            Other than that, I really don’t want to be that guy who is irresponsible and lets the other guy do the work for him, but if I go do physical grocery shopping on a very busy day with moving cars in the parking lot, asking me to travel to the other side of the parking lot to return a cart seems a little bit unreasonable, and that’s if the store is one of those that lack cart return points.

            But if there is one near me or even in the next row or after that, I am more than happy to walk there and return the cart, really, I am just talking about stores that have barely cart carrols, and if they do, it’s like, on the whole other side of the parking lot, you are basically walking back and forth from one side of the building to the other.